Hope Gomez: Early Advice

Hopkins Gomez: Early Advice

So that you don't have to apologize or give explanations afterwards after coming quickly, pay attention to the expert's advice from a matter expert, adult film actress Esperanza Gómez, and turn yourself into good sex.

The premature ejaculators are more common than people think. I've also lived through explanations like, for example, 'it's never happened to me before', 'I swear it's the first time', 'I got too excited and couldn't control myself', etcetera. And what experience tells me is that it's something more mental than physical. It's not a problem with the penis. Everything is in being able to control your mind when you feel the desire for ejaculation. I'll give you the first advice: when you feel like coming, stop and change position. This allows time for distraction that prevents orgasm. The second advice is to resort to oral sex and even vibrators so that your partner is happy in bed before penetration.I know there are medications to treat this problem, but I can say that it's more due to something psychological like stress, depression, or even unrequited love. The best recommendation —my third advice— is to seek help from specialists. I also recommend not depressing yourself or comparing yourself with the long scenes of porn actors. They're experts in delayed ejaculation because —I know from experience— when they want to come, they think about other things like 'grandma', or something that doesn't excite them. They, and you too, can take the penis out of the vagina to caress your partner's body, lower the excitement a bit and then continue. If it's the first time with your partner, it's good to tell her about your problem just before starting because she'll be able to help you manage it so you don't feel too much pressure from the possibility of not lasting long. Avoid having her on top because that's the easiest way for a man to come and if necessary, hold her hips firmly with your hands to prevent too stimulating movements that would make him come too quickly. I suggest starting by getting on top of her. There are men who aren't premature ejaculators but still go through this embarrassment the first time with a different woman. In that case, it's easier to deal with because after the first orgasm, there's less anxiety and what comes next is normal. A final recommendation is never to feel ashamed about this problem and the best thing is to seek help if necessary because there are solutions for it and better if you do it with your partner.Source:SH Magazine Note