Difficult question whether it's worth trying a threesome or not, because for some people it's worth trying and for others it's a total disaster.
It has a lot to do with how secure one is that they really want to live the experience versus just enjoying imagining what such an experience would be like. And that's a very difficult area where the person has to come to a determination.
Beyond that, if one really wants to experiment, you have to consider that threesomes are complex. If between two people it's already complicated, we're adding a third person who isn't the main person in the relationship, but who obviously deserves all the respect and consideration. And that third person is going to bring a lot of external things to deal with.
If you advance, it has to be previously negotiated; you have to know well what's expected; you need a plan A, plan B, and plan C. If things don't go as imagined and if the situation halfway isn't like they thought, how will they react?
All that has to be previously analyzed, discussed, and negotiated. And yet, it's often very difficult. For most people, it doesn't end up being favorable because it impacts the relationship and many people can't overcome jealousy or find something strange, or maybe someone liked them more, or whatever.
But for other people it works wonderfully. Then, who am I to say what's good and what's bad? If they like it, then it's fine. But, watch out: often it doesn't work and it's a big risk in terms of maintaining the integrity of the couple. It's complicated.
20 comentários - Swingers and threesomes: worth trying?
Te felicito
El poder arbitrario constituye una tentación natural para un príncipe, como el vino o las mujeres para un hombre joven, o el soborno para un juez, o la avaricia para el viejo, o la vanidad para la mujer.
sigue así y jamas pierdas la humildad, solo los grandes dan las gracias.
Saludos y gracias por el aporte!
Gaby
Ecelente!! 👍