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Female Eroticism
What do women fantasize with?
Women often have a very wide world of sexual fantasies. They were educated with more sexual limitations and repressions than men, and much of their sexual activity unfolds on that plane. Until a few years ago, the content of those scenes was quite romantic and not very transgressive. But some things are changing. Psychologist and sexologist Andrea Gómez analyzes the topic for Entremujeres.
Fantasies, according to Sigmund Freud, are, above all, daytime dreams, scenes, episodes, novels, fictions that people forge and narrate to themselves while awake. They are mental images that can contain a complete scene or only fragments or isolated images, and generally develop and visualize desires that are not always unfulfilled. And/or recreate stimulating and pleasant situations that the person would not want to realize in reality: they are fantasies and there they concentrate all their power.
Fantasies are productions of the psyche, of human mind, which allow us to play and explore within our souls and surrender to pleasures and desires that in reality would be prohibited and even embarrassing. The subject who creates this fantasy always forms part of it: whether as a participant or as an observer. People allow themselves through their fantasies to imagine, create, and participate in situations that they would probably never concretize in reality, generally due to guilt or shame.
Sexual activity properly speaking is born and develops in fantasies. Teenagers have sexual fantasies about the first sexual relationship, the first kiss, a desired encounter, private and exciting scenes that are tracing the path for the development of identity and future sexual activity. Women usually have a very wide range of sexual fantasies. They have been educated with more sexual limitations and repressions than men. Their sexual activity develops largely in fantasy and its content is more romantic than erotic-sexual. Men express their sexual impulses and desires with greater freedoms and permissions. It is even socially invited to fantasize and develop their sexual fantasies as a guarantee of masculinity and manhood. Women, on the other hand, are educated to fall in love and only then, in that ideal state, will they have permission for sex and/or to fantasize with the loved one. But in fantasy everything goes and women are animating themselves to enrich their sexual life. As they shed prejudices and social and cultural mandates, they allow themselves to explore within, creating scenes and situations extremely exciting that enrich and expand their possibilities of giving and receiving sexual pleasure. When this path is allowed, it facilitates its development and many times unknown zones in the human mind are discovered. Don't be afraid: these are just fantasies. They can be private or shared with the partner. And let's clarify that when it comes to human and adult sexuality, everything is allowed as long as there is no coercion, abuse, or mistreatment of people, whether minors or other adults who do not wish to share this sexual practice or fantasy. Some female sexual fantasies: - Menage a trois. Sexual relations involving three people of the same or different sex. - Sexual relations with a woman. They are very frequent and do not determine that whoever fantasizes has a homosexual sexual identity. - Seduction scenes where she feels observed and desired by others. - Voyeurism. Watching, observing others having sexual relations. - Fantasy of sexual submission. This fantasy confirms the woman in a passive role so fostered by the phallocentric culture and does not mean that she desires it in reality. The fantasy is under her control and is not dangerous. On the contrary, a real event with these characteristics would be absolutely unpleasant, exciting, violent, and degrading. - The use of erotic lingerie, role-playing in the couple, playing characters real or fantasized, stimulating all senses through flavors, sounds, smells, visual images, and bodily sensations, discovering and exploring from erogenous zones in the body, trigger and enrich sexual fantasies and therefore the sexual life of people. Source: Lic. Andrea Gómez, sexologist and psychologist
Sexual fantasies have stopped being a taboo.
Six out of ten Argentines dared to fulfill them. Most did it with their partner and age doesn't make a difference. The preferred one is having sex with more than one person. According to specialists, people now feel greater freedom to express their desires.
That stimulating material that awakens the senses, unfolds in the body and spices up the couple has stopped being a taboo. Today, most Argentines allow themselves to desire and express freely their sexual fantasies that decades ago used to hide. This is shown by an exclusive survey conducted for Clarín by D'Alessio Irol: it says that 84% of the 450 respondents had some fantasy and that 64% dared to fulfill it, with most (70%) doing so with their own partner. What are the fantasies leading the ranking? Two things stand out: experiencing a menage a trois, present in 36% of the answers, and having group sex, chosen by 16%.
In this ratoneo, age is not an obstacle: the survey results show that it occurs as much among those under 24 years old as among adults and those over 55.
Those distant and difficult desires we keep in a fantasized place can be concretized. And in recent times, Argentines are achieving this more and more because one can speak and show sexuality, which is no longer so mysterious and basically genitalized, interprets psychologist and sexologist Adriana Arias, author of Locas y fuertes: relatos de mujeres.
For psychiatrist and sexologist Enrique de Rosa, among couples, this 'I'm not doing anything terrible' thing is gaining ground because the idea of perversion has become more limited to other issues.
As specialists say, it's no longer a joke to talk about the possibility of forming a trio in bed, using costumes or erotic toys, exchanging partners or having sex with people of other races or in public places. And despite many times realizing fantasies can lead one to think of infidelity, exploring what's not routine is done, in most cases, with one's own partner. At work, men mentioned more than women fulfilling these desires with an occasional partner, a person who is He met someone on a trip or a stranger. And it's very low (8%) the mention of relationships with prostitutes.
Who do people talk and share these fantasies with? With their partner: 78% felt comfortable telling them, although only 23% was completely honest, while half (55%) preferred to hide some. According to Arias, they remain, in reality, sheltered in imagination because they are part of a person's privacy.
There are people who confess the politically correct sin and others don't. What's important is that if there is 'sexual communication' in the couple, fantasies can be an arm to combat routine, De Rosa adds.
Those who shared their fantasies with their partners said it had a good outcome because it motivated the other person to feel comfortable sharing theirs and even realizing them. It's like this -Arias nods-; in the consulting room, we see more often that when one of the couple's members tells their 'ratoneos', most get hooked. However, the survey shows that with increasing age, people tend to take it less seriously. This happens with repressed people: taking it lightly works as a shortcut to getting away from a place that is mistakenly considered perverse, Arias adds.
Immersed in the search for an extra thrill, respondents opted for triple X movies, in the case of men, while women chose erotic toys. The less exciting resources were online pornography and pornographic magazines. Why? Arias explains that movies are the ideal stimulus for a couple's intimacy on TV, in bed; and toys are the preferred clitoral stimulators for women. On the other hand, online pornography and magazines are classics of individual consumption. A survey asked how they would define their sexuality. With those precedents, the result was to be expected: 41% responded that it is exciting. In numbersA stimulus for sexual life * The menage à trois is the main erotic fantasy: 40% of women and 31% of men. Group sex follows, with 17% of women and 15% of men. If there's good communication in the couple, fantasies can be a weapon to combat routine. * Using costumes or erotic toys in bed: 9% (12% of women and 5% of men). * Having sex with someone black or oriental: 9% (13% of men and 6% of women). * Swapping partners: 7% (11% of men and 4% of women). * Sex in public places: 7% of men and women. * Living a homosexual experience: 5% (5% of women and 4% of men). * Cheating on your partner with their brother-in-law/a: 4% (6% of men and 1% of women)Opinion
The keysThe experts consulted by Clarín affirm that fantasies are the seasoning of the couple. And they provide some keys to let it run. 'Just like in meals, if you season too much you can ruin its taste. The point is that the stimulation, before the stimulation, be the priority, because when the search aims at obtaining strong and new sensations all the time, the couple can destroy itself', comments Enrique de Rosa. 'Many fantasies are erotic in imagination and not in facts. That's why it's ideal to use some as a resource in bed and keep others for the indulgence of an uncensored space: the imagination', suggests Adriana Arias. For De Rosa, 'fulfilling a fantasy enormously unites the couple because they manage to share a secret area. They manage to open barriers, overcome taboos, fears, prejudices, and ideas like if you want to be with someone else it's because I don't measure up, you don't love me'. Arias says: 'Without fantasies, sex remains on the genital level. Eroticism is something else: we traverse the body, but the motor is in the imagination'.Comment 😊 Source: entremujeres.com
Female Eroticism
What do women fantasize with?
Women often have a very wide world of sexual fantasies. They were educated with more sexual limitations and repressions than men, and much of their sexual activity unfolds on that plane. Until a few years ago, the content of those scenes was quite romantic and not very transgressive. But some things are changing. Psychologist and sexologist Andrea Gómez analyzes the topic for Entremujeres.
Fantasies, according to Sigmund Freud, are, above all, daytime dreams, scenes, episodes, novels, fictions that people forge and narrate to themselves while awake. They are mental images that can contain a complete scene or only fragments or isolated images, and generally develop and visualize desires that are not always unfulfilled. And/or recreate stimulating and pleasant situations that the person would not want to realize in reality: they are fantasies and there they concentrate all their power.
Fantasies are productions of the psyche, of human mind, which allow us to play and explore within our souls and surrender to pleasures and desires that in reality would be prohibited and even embarrassing. The subject who creates this fantasy always forms part of it: whether as a participant or as an observer. People allow themselves through their fantasies to imagine, create, and participate in situations that they would probably never concretize in reality, generally due to guilt or shame.
Sexual activity properly speaking is born and develops in fantasies. Teenagers have sexual fantasies about the first sexual relationship, the first kiss, a desired encounter, private and exciting scenes that are tracing the path for the development of identity and future sexual activity. Women usually have a very wide range of sexual fantasies. They have been educated with more sexual limitations and repressions than men. Their sexual activity develops largely in fantasy and its content is more romantic than erotic-sexual. Men express their sexual impulses and desires with greater freedoms and permissions. It is even socially invited to fantasize and develop their sexual fantasies as a guarantee of masculinity and manhood. Women, on the other hand, are educated to fall in love and only then, in that ideal state, will they have permission for sex and/or to fantasize with the loved one. But in fantasy everything goes and women are animating themselves to enrich their sexual life. As they shed prejudices and social and cultural mandates, they allow themselves to explore within, creating scenes and situations extremely exciting that enrich and expand their possibilities of giving and receiving sexual pleasure. When this path is allowed, it facilitates its development and many times unknown zones in the human mind are discovered. Don't be afraid: these are just fantasies. They can be private or shared with the partner. And let's clarify that when it comes to human and adult sexuality, everything is allowed as long as there is no coercion, abuse, or mistreatment of people, whether minors or other adults who do not wish to share this sexual practice or fantasy. Some female sexual fantasies: - Menage a trois. Sexual relations involving three people of the same or different sex. - Sexual relations with a woman. They are very frequent and do not determine that whoever fantasizes has a homosexual sexual identity. - Seduction scenes where she feels observed and desired by others. - Voyeurism. Watching, observing others having sexual relations. - Fantasy of sexual submission. This fantasy confirms the woman in a passive role so fostered by the phallocentric culture and does not mean that she desires it in reality. The fantasy is under her control and is not dangerous. On the contrary, a real event with these characteristics would be absolutely unpleasant, exciting, violent, and degrading. - The use of erotic lingerie, role-playing in the couple, playing characters real or fantasized, stimulating all senses through flavors, sounds, smells, visual images, and bodily sensations, discovering and exploring from erogenous zones in the body, trigger and enrich sexual fantasies and therefore the sexual life of people. Source: Lic. Andrea Gómez, sexologist and psychologist
Sexual fantasies have stopped being a taboo.
Six out of ten Argentines dared to fulfill them. Most did it with their partner and age doesn't make a difference. The preferred one is having sex with more than one person. According to specialists, people now feel greater freedom to express their desires.
That stimulating material that awakens the senses, unfolds in the body and spices up the couple has stopped being a taboo. Today, most Argentines allow themselves to desire and express freely their sexual fantasies that decades ago used to hide. This is shown by an exclusive survey conducted for Clarín by D'Alessio Irol: it says that 84% of the 450 respondents had some fantasy and that 64% dared to fulfill it, with most (70%) doing so with their own partner. What are the fantasies leading the ranking? Two things stand out: experiencing a menage a trois, present in 36% of the answers, and having group sex, chosen by 16%.
In this ratoneo, age is not an obstacle: the survey results show that it occurs as much among those under 24 years old as among adults and those over 55.
Those distant and difficult desires we keep in a fantasized place can be concretized. And in recent times, Argentines are achieving this more and more because one can speak and show sexuality, which is no longer so mysterious and basically genitalized, interprets psychologist and sexologist Adriana Arias, author of Locas y fuertes: relatos de mujeres.
For psychiatrist and sexologist Enrique de Rosa, among couples, this 'I'm not doing anything terrible' thing is gaining ground because the idea of perversion has become more limited to other issues.
As specialists say, it's no longer a joke to talk about the possibility of forming a trio in bed, using costumes or erotic toys, exchanging partners or having sex with people of other races or in public places. And despite many times realizing fantasies can lead one to think of infidelity, exploring what's not routine is done, in most cases, with one's own partner. At work, men mentioned more than women fulfilling these desires with an occasional partner, a person who is He met someone on a trip or a stranger. And it's very low (8%) the mention of relationships with prostitutes.
Who do people talk and share these fantasies with? With their partner: 78% felt comfortable telling them, although only 23% was completely honest, while half (55%) preferred to hide some. According to Arias, they remain, in reality, sheltered in imagination because they are part of a person's privacy.
There are people who confess the politically correct sin and others don't. What's important is that if there is 'sexual communication' in the couple, fantasies can be an arm to combat routine, De Rosa adds.
Those who shared their fantasies with their partners said it had a good outcome because it motivated the other person to feel comfortable sharing theirs and even realizing them. It's like this -Arias nods-; in the consulting room, we see more often that when one of the couple's members tells their 'ratoneos', most get hooked. However, the survey shows that with increasing age, people tend to take it less seriously. This happens with repressed people: taking it lightly works as a shortcut to getting away from a place that is mistakenly considered perverse, Arias adds.
Immersed in the search for an extra thrill, respondents opted for triple X movies, in the case of men, while women chose erotic toys. The less exciting resources were online pornography and pornographic magazines. Why? Arias explains that movies are the ideal stimulus for a couple's intimacy on TV, in bed; and toys are the preferred clitoral stimulators for women. On the other hand, online pornography and magazines are classics of individual consumption. A survey asked how they would define their sexuality. With those precedents, the result was to be expected: 41% responded that it is exciting. In numbersA stimulus for sexual life * The menage à trois is the main erotic fantasy: 40% of women and 31% of men. Group sex follows, with 17% of women and 15% of men. If there's good communication in the couple, fantasies can be a weapon to combat routine. * Using costumes or erotic toys in bed: 9% (12% of women and 5% of men). * Having sex with someone black or oriental: 9% (13% of men and 6% of women). * Swapping partners: 7% (11% of men and 4% of women). * Sex in public places: 7% of men and women. * Living a homosexual experience: 5% (5% of women and 4% of men). * Cheating on your partner with their brother-in-law/a: 4% (6% of men and 1% of women)Opinion
The keysThe experts consulted by Clarín affirm that fantasies are the seasoning of the couple. And they provide some keys to let it run. 'Just like in meals, if you season too much you can ruin its taste. The point is that the stimulation, before the stimulation, be the priority, because when the search aims at obtaining strong and new sensations all the time, the couple can destroy itself', comments Enrique de Rosa. 'Many fantasies are erotic in imagination and not in facts. That's why it's ideal to use some as a resource in bed and keep others for the indulgence of an uncensored space: the imagination', suggests Adriana Arias. For De Rosa, 'fulfilling a fantasy enormously unites the couple because they manage to share a secret area. They manage to open barriers, overcome taboos, fears, prejudices, and ideas like if you want to be with someone else it's because I don't measure up, you don't love me'. Arias says: 'Without fantasies, sex remains on the genital level. Eroticism is something else: we traverse the body, but the motor is in the imagination'.Comment 😊 Source: entremujeres.com
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