Swingers: exchange of couples and fantasies
Everything related to sex causes curiosity and although many don't want to admit it, it's a topic that intrigues all human beings, often there is a tendency to judge the unknown and even try to destroy what doesn't seem 'normal' for some. For those who don't know,SwingersIt's the exchange of couples without sentimental or romantic commitment, they have the possibility to freely choose how to enjoy their sexuality, leaving aside culture, political ideas or religious beliefs with the objective of fulfilling their fantasies.
Although it is a highly liberal practice, swingers have great respect for their partner, and communication, trust, and stability are fundamental tools when carrying out this activity.
Among their habits include group sex, observing other couples or even being observed.
A relevant aspect is that the couples are real and with affective bonds, generally those who attend have a commitment to each other.
Currently, there exist spaces that invite the pleasure of those who practice new sexual experiences away from traditional norms and sexuality. These meeting places, chalets, hotels, beaches, bars, discos, and private homes are spaces where dancing, drinks, erotic shows, lights, and the general atmosphere predispose to an erotic climate used by couples carrying out their sexual fantasies in a totally liberal environment with people whose names are unknown and who have not exchanged words before.
Araceli and Néstor recount their experience and clarify all doubts.Almost 20 years of being married made us reevaluate our sexuality. We formed a compatible couple in many aspects, where sex was always among the priorities of our shared life, to the point that even though we got along very well in this aspect, both of us felt uneasy about knowing other possibilities that would lead us to live new experiences. We tried first giving ourselves permission to have a sexual relationship with another person, but this didn't work out; we understood that this wasn't what we were looking for. And later on, it was he who suggested the idea of Swinger (SW). At first, it wasn't easy to accept the proposal, personally I had to understand what it was about and consequently develop the idea of how this thing worked, namely the exchange of couples. We started with a trio, that is, us two and someone else. We had a great time, both fascinated by the adventure, we understood that this made us feel very well, now there was no need to try it with another couple, and also both of us enjoyed it fully. Then we discovered an unknown erotic profile in ourselves, a totally new world, where without guilt the fact that other sexuality was possible flourished and manifested itself. This began for us about 8 years ago., explains Araceli.
The couple relates thatBeing married or living with a partner does not imply repressing the other's sexuality. The principle of this practice respects that this is just sex and that being with other people is enjoyed as if it were a good dinner, a good movie, or distraction, and when it ends one goes in search of another partner.On the first occasion, the date is for getting to know each other, for example, it could be meeting up at a café to chat about their experiences. Many times the more experienced ones can guide the newer ones.We've started many couples because when we began, there was one that set the premise for this practice with its respective codes, and they had patience with us. It was important to have an experienced reference and that's why we try to make new couples feel the same way, containing them and clearing up their doubts. Then going on to what we call 2nd level is how we continue, or rather the intimate stage, sex itselfThey say. Never obliges to anything, only has relationships with people who are similar, with those who attract them, with those they have previously chosen or that spontaneously meet or seek each other while the group is having sex. The marriage clarifies thatThe use of condoms, personal hygiene, and the location are fundamental and inalterable principles. Biosecurity rules are not always respected and oral sex is a very particular topic unlike penetration where condom use is mandatory. Changing condoms in front of each woman every time you switch partners is also an important act. It seems difficult to control but despite the super erotic situation, there are senses that must always be alert.Despite these precautions, the exposure of these practices has its risks of contagion to a greater or lesser extent that's why they claim to try to preserve their physical integrity by taking care of themselves.How was it the first time?
In the beginning, accepting seeing your partner enjoy themselves, having a good time with someone else, is not easy for anyone. Time, in almost all cases, although not in all, is what makes us feel secure about ourselves and accept the situation as it presents itself, one must learn to relax. When couples start practicing this, including ourselves, they take great care, especially the man taking care of his woman, knowing who she's with and how she's treated, and that a condom is used, among other things. Time and experience give security to the woman to handle these situations that allow the couple to relax and manage themselves in an independent and free environment. Always together. We have a great time together and it excites us to see our partner with someone else, from the beginning we felt this way. In men, the use of condoms and changing each new relationship costs them a lot as they don't allow for permanent erections, but with time, this will be a situation overcome for almost everyone.
What are the codes they use?
When a couple approaches and the other one doesn't vibe, in the case of discos or group gatherings, with just a hand gesture saying NO we don't want it, the other couple should withdraw.
Do you consider that love and sex are two different things?
When it comes to sexual exchange, it's because there is love between them, the practice of sex only becomes possible when both are solidly prepared to experience a nature like this. Love in the couple goes through the other part being able to fully enjoy their sexuality and realize their fantasies.Considering sexual rights, there is no single way to live sexuality. Including autoerotism, intellectual well-being, and spiritual well-being, as long as there are no physical or psychological damages, it's legitimate to choose how to live sexuality. Let moral principles not repress your sexuality. Enjoy sex and this will make the couple live a spectacular life, clarify Araceli and Néstor.
Source:http://lacapital-aulamagna.blogspot.com/2011/07/swingers-intercambio-de-parejas-y.html
Everything related to sex causes curiosity and although many don't want to admit it, it's a topic that intrigues all human beings, often there is a tendency to judge the unknown and even try to destroy what doesn't seem 'normal' for some. For those who don't know,SwingersIt's the exchange of couples without sentimental or romantic commitment, they have the possibility to freely choose how to enjoy their sexuality, leaving aside culture, political ideas or religious beliefs with the objective of fulfilling their fantasies.
Although it is a highly liberal practice, swingers have great respect for their partner, and communication, trust, and stability are fundamental tools when carrying out this activity.
Among their habits include group sex, observing other couples or even being observed.
A relevant aspect is that the couples are real and with affective bonds, generally those who attend have a commitment to each other.
Currently, there exist spaces that invite the pleasure of those who practice new sexual experiences away from traditional norms and sexuality. These meeting places, chalets, hotels, beaches, bars, discos, and private homes are spaces where dancing, drinks, erotic shows, lights, and the general atmosphere predispose to an erotic climate used by couples carrying out their sexual fantasies in a totally liberal environment with people whose names are unknown and who have not exchanged words before.
Araceli and Néstor recount their experience and clarify all doubts.Almost 20 years of being married made us reevaluate our sexuality. We formed a compatible couple in many aspects, where sex was always among the priorities of our shared life, to the point that even though we got along very well in this aspect, both of us felt uneasy about knowing other possibilities that would lead us to live new experiences. We tried first giving ourselves permission to have a sexual relationship with another person, but this didn't work out; we understood that this wasn't what we were looking for. And later on, it was he who suggested the idea of Swinger (SW). At first, it wasn't easy to accept the proposal, personally I had to understand what it was about and consequently develop the idea of how this thing worked, namely the exchange of couples. We started with a trio, that is, us two and someone else. We had a great time, both fascinated by the adventure, we understood that this made us feel very well, now there was no need to try it with another couple, and also both of us enjoyed it fully. Then we discovered an unknown erotic profile in ourselves, a totally new world, where without guilt the fact that other sexuality was possible flourished and manifested itself. This began for us about 8 years ago., explains Araceli.
The couple relates thatBeing married or living with a partner does not imply repressing the other's sexuality. The principle of this practice respects that this is just sex and that being with other people is enjoyed as if it were a good dinner, a good movie, or distraction, and when it ends one goes in search of another partner.On the first occasion, the date is for getting to know each other, for example, it could be meeting up at a café to chat about their experiences. Many times the more experienced ones can guide the newer ones.We've started many couples because when we began, there was one that set the premise for this practice with its respective codes, and they had patience with us. It was important to have an experienced reference and that's why we try to make new couples feel the same way, containing them and clearing up their doubts. Then going on to what we call 2nd level is how we continue, or rather the intimate stage, sex itselfThey say. Never obliges to anything, only has relationships with people who are similar, with those who attract them, with those they have previously chosen or that spontaneously meet or seek each other while the group is having sex. The marriage clarifies thatThe use of condoms, personal hygiene, and the location are fundamental and inalterable principles. Biosecurity rules are not always respected and oral sex is a very particular topic unlike penetration where condom use is mandatory. Changing condoms in front of each woman every time you switch partners is also an important act. It seems difficult to control but despite the super erotic situation, there are senses that must always be alert.Despite these precautions, the exposure of these practices has its risks of contagion to a greater or lesser extent that's why they claim to try to preserve their physical integrity by taking care of themselves.How was it the first time?
In the beginning, accepting seeing your partner enjoy themselves, having a good time with someone else, is not easy for anyone. Time, in almost all cases, although not in all, is what makes us feel secure about ourselves and accept the situation as it presents itself, one must learn to relax. When couples start practicing this, including ourselves, they take great care, especially the man taking care of his woman, knowing who she's with and how she's treated, and that a condom is used, among other things. Time and experience give security to the woman to handle these situations that allow the couple to relax and manage themselves in an independent and free environment. Always together. We have a great time together and it excites us to see our partner with someone else, from the beginning we felt this way. In men, the use of condoms and changing each new relationship costs them a lot as they don't allow for permanent erections, but with time, this will be a situation overcome for almost everyone.
What are the codes they use?
When a couple approaches and the other one doesn't vibe, in the case of discos or group gatherings, with just a hand gesture saying NO we don't want it, the other couple should withdraw.
Do you consider that love and sex are two different things?
When it comes to sexual exchange, it's because there is love between them, the practice of sex only becomes possible when both are solidly prepared to experience a nature like this. Love in the couple goes through the other part being able to fully enjoy their sexuality and realize their fantasies.Considering sexual rights, there is no single way to live sexuality. Including autoerotism, intellectual well-being, and spiritual well-being, as long as there are no physical or psychological damages, it's legitimate to choose how to live sexuality. Let moral principles not repress your sexuality. Enjoy sex and this will make the couple live a spectacular life, clarify Araceli and Néstor.
Source:http://lacapital-aulamagna.blogspot.com/2011/07/swingers-intercambio-de-parejas-y.html
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