Amigos con Beneficios - Filosofia Poringa!

Friends with Benefits Poring Philosophy!

By VideoX

Okay, chatting with my good friend Siamescat and P!ratita the other night, I told them a bit about how I live my life based on what fundamentals and they proposed that I elaborate on some of my questions so that the community can be better. I'm very reserved about what I do, but they convinced me it would be a good perspective to consider for all users.

I told them that I introduced a very particular term, which would be found between friends and lovers, something like amigovios or as I usually call it, Friends with Benefits.

This ideology is only for people with clear and concise ideas, since not everyone is prepared to accept such a type of relationship, beyond what one might think at first. It's not for taking lightly, nor for the jealous (this applies to all genders and orientations) since here we're not formalizing the relationship or bond, but rather what commonly in Argentina is called Touch and Go.

Let's put an example: Juan and Maria meet and find out they like each other but are afraid of commitment due to x reason (ex-partners, no more dating, etc.). Then they propose being lovers, but this also involves a commitment. In the end, they discover they want to be friends but express their affection in another way, not just with hugs or kisses, but on a higher level. Now, one thinks, We did it, are we boyfriends or was it just an adventure? A thousand things go through your head about whether what you did was right or wrong, if the friendship will end, and so on.

Well, that's where they should have planted some things before giving themselves to each other body and soul.

- The first and most fundamental thing, especially for the jealous, is to clarify that there is no relationship here and each part can go with whoever they want after being together; don't cry.
- The second is that it can be repeated, in that sense it's up to each one with whom Frequency demands it and how. It's fine to frequent each other, and do whatever you want, but not permanently; let's say, don't ask her to stay for 2 consecutive weeks, but also don't go without calling or seeing her for more than 6 months (that would be like not seeing a friend for a long time).

In summary, one must establish how far they want to go, set limits and say what needs to be said.

I'm repeating that this idea is only for people who have a clear sense of respect, won't violate it no matter what. There shouldn't be hysteria, things are said straight and without beating around the bush, since if they're said, it's so they can be heard.

After taking that difficult step when presenting the couple to each other, which can be quite rough if not done with respect and subtlety (remember they're friends), one must clarify how far they plan to go, what they want to do and, if desired, for how long (an example would be until they find someone for a serious relationship).

Many will be wondering if they'll continue being Friends with Benefits if either party gets into a serious relationship. Well, that's up to each individual's morality. In my case, I wouldn't be available for casual sex. It might sound a bit hypocritical, but it's not the same for single people who have sex as opposed to a single person and someone in a committed relationship having an affair, that's not the basic principle of this ideology.

A greeting to all the Porngirl community! VideoX