El sexo en embarazadas

Aspects to Consider

• Safety: If there is no type of contraindication, it is possible to continue sexual activity from the beginning of pregnancy until the process of parturition or rupture of the font. The fetus is located within the amniotic sac, a transparent bag that protects the pregnancy. This in turn is located within the uterus, a muscular organ whose opening into the vaginal canal is covered by what we call a mucous plug. That plug prevents contact with secretions outside the uterus. Several studies have found that maintaining an active sexual life during pregnancy can help in the healthy development of the fetus and the parturition process.

When it's not suitable:

When there is bleeding. It may be an indication of danger for the pregnancy and the pregnant woman. Regularly, it is recommended to have pelvic rest, which means you cannot have sexual relations including orgasm. This is because orgasm produces uterine contractions that can cause a miscarriage even if there is no penetration.

• When there is pain. Pain may be an indicator of inflammation or infection, which requires immediate evaluation.

• When you don't know your partner's sexual history or when you know your partner has a sexually transmitted infection. If you get infected during pregnancy, it's possible to transmit the infection to the baby.

• When the source breaks. Having sex after the amniotic membrane breaks puts the fetus at risk of infection. This can happen sometimes prematurely, weeks before the estimated due date. If you notice any abnormal secretion, do not have sexual relations until you have an evaluation by your obstetrician.

• When, for any other reason, your obstetrician recommends it. You should clarify and understand the reason or reasons why you are being recommended not to have sex. Ask if this recommendation includes having orgasms. If you can have them, you can resort to other practices that do not require penetration.

Normal changes

The desire does not vary, but:
•Approximately half of women do not experience a change in sexual desire throughout pregnancy. However, some women may experience a significant increase in the urge to have sex and others may completely lose it to the point of rejecting their partner. These changes can create tension in the relationship that if not managed can lead to the couple distancing themselves.
•The increase or loss of sexual desire can confuse the couple and amplify previous conflicts before pregnancy. It is at these moments that honest and open communication fosters unity and understanding between both partners.
•If this communication has not existed prior to pregnancy, it's time to seek professional help from someone who can assist them in adjusting to this new life. Establishing those communication channels are vital for the couple to survive from then on.

Intensity changes in excitement:

•A common situation is that the quality of excitement and orgasm changes. Due to the increased amount of blood arriving at the abdomen below (at the pelvic organs) it can increase the intensity of excitement and orgasm.

•Some women report having their first orgasm during the first trimester of pregnancy or reporting multiple orgasms for the first time. In other cases, that congestion may make one feel uncomfortable during excitement.

•When pregnancy is close to delivery, excitement helps in relaxing the pelvis and its muscles in preparation for the parturition process.

Pregnancy Positions

•At the beginning of pregnancy, you can usually continue using the same positions as before, unless your doctor recommends otherwise. The most recommended ones, particularly for comfort, during the more advanced months are: • 1. Woman on top: This is one of the most comfortable for women since they control their weight, degree of penetration, and intensity of sexual relations. • 2. Side by side (“Spooning” or cucharitas): It allows for not very deep penetration and does not involve balancing weight. • 3. Hands and knees: (“doggie style” or perrito): This allows the belly to hang, so no pressure is exerted on the abdomen. •Remember that this is a normal stage of your life and your partner's. You should also consider that even if you can have relations during pregnancy, it doesn't mean you have to. •If for any reason they are contraindicated, it is essential not to lose perspective that the couple relationship does not consist only of sexual relations but there are various ways to maintain intimacy with love and mutual respect. •The partner should try to accompany the pregnant woman to her appointments, particularly those crucial in planning the birth process. Showing interest in the entire process can help achieve greater intimacy even in cases where sexual activity is contraindicated. The most important thing is to maintain open and frank communication with your partner to continue enjoying a full sexual life during and after pregnancy.

When you're pregnant, you tend to let your guard down when it comes to protection during sexual relations (after all, you can't get pregnant anymore, right?), but you're still at risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases. If you don't have a stable partner or don't know their reproductive health status, use a condom. Remember that sexually transmitted diseases can also affect your baby, and they put both your life and theirs at risk.