Dia del orgasmo femenino

Nobody has spoken to us about our pleasure. In school, they talk to us about sex as a reproductive act, and the inputs we receive are always terrifying: be careful not to get pregnant, be careful not to catch an STI! Nobody talks to us about affection, love, caresses, play, desire. Nobody explains how our organ is, where we have the clitoris, and how important it is in obtaining pleasure. Something difficult to see among boys, where masturbation is almost social, some do it in groups, talk about it, etc. Our parents also don't know how to approach it, they don't know how to talk about sex, even if they're open, nobody has taught them either. So basically the information we receive in general is about protection, never about sex as something pleasurable. Later come conversations with friends, and yes, it's true, we rarely talk about failure, problems, and that's a mistake, because just talking about it makes us feel less alone, less strange. Another problem I've detected is that even though we talk about sex, we don't do it in a deep way, we stay with: we were screwing all night, she was enormous, I came five times but never share more intimate details, I suppose because of shame, but those details are what can help us enjoy more, obtain that pleasure that many times we don't achieve. Sharing positions, erogenous zones, ways to caress, kiss, etc... I find many girls who explain they've never reached orgasm, not with their partner nor when masturbating. But it's normal considering the little information we receive and the taboos and guilt we still carry. Some of them don't even know where to touch themselves or how. And it's frustrating, considering that as small children we used to touch ourselves because it's natural, but as we grow up, either due to the reactions of the older ones: don't touch yourself there or even because our parents and mothers didn't Let's face it and talk about it, creating a feeling of guilt that's hard to shake off. There are girls who tell me they feel bad when they touch themselves, and that really saddens me, since sex should be the most natural thing in the world. So we need to get rid of all that Judeo-Christian guilt, get over the shame and touch ourselves, get to know ourselves, discover ourselves, it's the only way to enjoy pleasure and communicate it later to our partners. And talking about it with friends and family.