Before you have your first date with a girl, she won't feel an important connection with you. Although it may sound unfortunate, you're probably not the only man sending her messages. You'll see that a common mistake many men make when sending messages to a girl is confusing responses with attraction. Many times when a guy receives a response from a girl, he thinks he's closer to having a date with her or seducing her. But it's exactly the opposite! The more messages you send before meeting a girl, the fewer chances you'll have of really having an encounter with her! That's how it is: even if that girl is RESPONDING to your messages, it doesn't mean you're closer to really having a date with her.
Instead, say more with less. When you're thinking about what message to send to a girl, try saying it in a simpler way, with fewer messages exchanged. Most men send pointless messages to women like How's your day? or Are you enjoying the warm weather? These messages GET YOU NOWHERE WITH A WOMAN! They only beg for a response (which means nothing). To make sure you never waste messages on senseless chats again, ask yourself the golden question: • How does this message bring us closer to this girl and me having a date? If your answer is simply to get to know her better, delete that message. It won't help at all.
This is the simple truth. When a woman gives you her number, SHE ISN'T signing a social contract to go out with you... And until that seems FUN to her.... probably won't bother meeting up with you. So when you send boring messages that don't show your personality or generate any emotion in her... in her mind it's not worth meeting up with you. These are some signs you're not being fun: • Am I being too stiff and formal? “Hi. It was nice meeting you on Friday”... (Too stiff. Too formal)
• Am I putting pressure on her to keep the conversation going?
• Am I bothering her with questions?
Remember, each text you send should make you look like the FUN OPTION. It should seem like you're her escape from a boring day.
How can you do this?
Start by choosing words that convey DIVERSION.
Exaggerate a bit in your messages. Everything you're doing or about to do should be EPIC.
• Am I bothering her with questions?
Remember, each text you send should make you look like the FUN OPTION. It should seem like you're her escape from a boring day.
How can you do this?
Start by choosing words that convey DIVERSION.
Exaggerate a bit in your messages. Everything you're doing or about to do should be EPIC.
If you're sending messages to an attractive woman, it's very likely that YOU WON'T be the only man she'll receive a message from today. I hate giving you this news. But among the other types who are looking for her, ex-boyfriends, coworkers, university classmates, and more... there are plenty of men competing for her attention. So if you want to stand out, your messages must show your unique style and personality. She should be able to know it's a message from you just by reading it (even if the name appears blocked) What words, phrases, punctuation, or emojis are typically yours?
Text message conversations are not the same as face-to-face conversations. Text message conversations are not the same as face-to-face conversations. Messages should be super genius notes of a normal conversation only. That is, leave behind formalities. AVOID TRIVIALITIES. The longer the conversation, the more chances there will be to ruin it or create an uncomfortable confusion. Every time you pick up your phone... jump straight to the good stuff.
Start with a funny anecdote. Start with a playful nickname. Find a way to quickly awaken an emotion in her and make her give you all her attention. Always make the conversation advance. Think of this as if there were a staircase. And at the top of it, the girl is sitting naked waiting for you. Each message you send should make you climb one step higher on that staircase.
This is another hard and cruel fact. If you ask a woman to spend time with you without awakening an emotion in her first... almost all the times she will reject you. Why? Because all the positive emotions she felt when she was with you have dissipated. And the idea of dressing up, going out to meet someone she barely knows (and who could potentially turn out to be a repulsive or just annoying guy) is not worth making an effort. Logically, she can convince herself not to do it. Which is why YOU MUST catch her emotionally first.
It's MUCH easier to get a 'yes' from a woman once you've awakened a positive emotion. The two best ways to do this are through FLIRTING or HUMOR. This is an important concept: She WON'T remember all your good qualities. So it's YOUR JOB to remind her.
I hope you like the post was a bit off but I'll be back soon with more
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pd:Muy buenos consejos 👍
Gracias por compartir.
Angie te deja Besos y Lamiditas !!!
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Porque para mi, el consejo esta brindado desde el punto de vista femenino.....pero..? nunca se sabe.
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1 Una foto con un pito
2 Hola!
3 Contestame por favor!!! (ni idea a que, solo escriben eso)
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7 Halagos varios (estos son bien recibidos)
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10 Te gusta el sexo? (este es mortal)
Un poco más de onda chicos!!! Se ve que la única interacción social/sexual de muchos no pasa de P! whatsapp, Facebook o Skype!!!
PD: Un poco de humor para agregar al tuyo, Beso (éste sí, en serio y PLATON
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