Cuckold, questions that made me ask the cucks...

Years into this cuckold path, among the written accounts of my experiences and lovely conversations born from this beautiful community... I've gathered a series of frequent questions born from the horned and curious people of the cuckold world. Not considering myself an expert on the topic, but questions and experience help others enter, clear up doubts, and why not make me part of their stories...

How do I convince my wife to enter into cuckolding?

First, tell her and get her consent that more than once I was unfaithful and lied; it's not good to start a cuckold relationship based on lies. The desire to be horned is a fantasy, normally a desire that grows in our minds and takes over our desires... sharing this path with your partner is fundamental, always a first time is slow, you have to overcome fears and it's a door to a new world, which may or may not please...

I think the most important thing is for the bull to know his role in the game of three, to know how to take her and respect her, and not fall into one of the common mistakes that is believing an ALFA is equal to a violent one... not necessarily a dominant one is violent, what a dominant one is security, firmness, the confidence to guide...

I think it's fundamental to clarify the fantasy, teach about this world and its differences with infidelity behind someone's back. Participating in the search for the bull and the rules that will follow during sessions also helps her enter into trust. It's not about convincing me, but showing the door to a new world...

Bothers that the horned one participates? Although a horned one excites when looking many times, one of the things that a cornear should have clear is that there will be frictions in a cuckold trio... normally the horned ones participate partially (some for precocious and others for enjoying more of seeing) Also we must have clear that many horned ones have bisexual fantasies and it's necessary to respect them... always is best to leave them clear before starting relationships so there are no surprises or bad passages... nothing is more exciting than a woman watching her cuck in surrender to another man and renouncing to her femininity. The most important thing is to leave everything clear... avoid uncomfortable situations, a good bull can please the couple and that's the key of cuckold. My wife is secure about her body and that holds her back? First I'm not Brad Pitt, so I can't criticize anyone... outside of this, the pleasure of cuckolding is being with a couple and above all being with the other woman while she knows it's in your hands... So it's important that the cuck helps to transmit that security which is obvious the cornear also thus the woman who is the object of desire in the relationship can free her own repressions and enjoy freely of sex... Prefer to be a fixed cornear? Normally I personally like being a bull fix... allows you to know more about the woman, take her to carry out her fantasies and lead her to pleasure paths that on a solo night are impossible. Besides being with a fixed couple allows liberating cares and forms that sometimes leads to incredible ways and can open doors like those of polyamory. If I never get tired of anything, knowing the map of pleasures of a woman is a discovery where you take her leading to More intense orgasms on wetter paths and pleasures that only occur in fixed relationships

How do you split expenses with the cuck? It's variable and obviously it gets settled in advance… putting two different examples, there are submissive cucks who love knowing that you're screwing the lady and paying the bills... others lend to the wife and you go out with her, then it's like a date where you run up normal expenses for a night out... I enjoy myself when I go to the cuck's house, eat the lady, and drink the beer he pays... But I don't overdo it. There are many dependents born in this world and I always like talking about it with the couple, searching and seeing what type of expenses they desire the cuck... Knowing yourself as a cuck, submissive cuck, submissive... Would you face a polyamorous relationship? I understand polyamory from having spoken with people who practice it, but I never saw myself in the situation of entering a polyamorous relationship...I think I like the cuckold very sexual, in relationships more emotions and expectations of fidelity enter… I'm not possessive nor do I like others to be so with me… I consider myself friends with the couples I've shared a relationship with, but we never talk about being something more than an invitee on the couples' pleasure paths… I respect the couple a lot, without a hosting couple there is no cuckold and having broken down my barriers that have been presenting themselves in the different situations that occurred with the couples I relate to today, I sometimes wonder if it would happen if I were to pass into polyamory but polyamory itself is a world that deserves conversations lived and better guides than me in this case... How long can you spend with a partner? I understand that question in two ways, the couple I've known for more years is one with whom we've known each other for about 7 or 8 years, but as they live inside and come to the capital rarely, we don't see them often now. Now if we're talking about consecutive time, a cuck invited me to spend a long weekend with them, it was fun because we were showing off as cucks in front of everyone, increasing the thrill knowing nobody recognized us... I'm not bothered spending time together, it opens doors to other fantasies and doing things we normally don't do at places where we're locals, and my partner and I have private lives that we need to respect. What things don't you negotiate or accept in a 3-way relationship? 
Primero, no acepto hacer cosas sin pleno consentimientode los 3, no soy un violador y ni me agrada el abuso en ningunas de sus formas…el cuckold es una extencion del placer y se puede tener nervios, dudas etc queno se van con forzar a alguien a un momento.
Pueden pasar mil cosas dentro de esas 4 paredes, perosiempre es una relación de 3 en las relaciones soy solo ACTIVO con ambos en lapareja y no se me cae ninguna pluma en decirlo… también como pueden leer en
http://www.poringa.net/posts/relatos/5182573/Mama-e-hije.html
he estado en relaciones filiales más allá de lo que defineel cukcold y me divierte, lo disfruto mientras todas las partes lo disfrutemos.
Otras cosa no negociable, es que excepto que ya lo hallamoshablado los 3 y llegado a un acuerdo claro siempre la comunicación es con EL,ya que no me gusta confundir las relaciones ni que se presten a confuncion… normalmentecon las parejas que soy fijo solemos tener un chat de 3 donde arreglamos todo yhablamos todo.








 As I said before, I'm not a guru but the truth is that these questions always make me do it and it doesn't bother me to talk to people from this environment, I actually love doing it... as long as someone who starts in this environment has my chat open... respect above all... Thanks in advance and we'll upload an XP that happened these days...

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