Preguntas a las mentes swingers

Hello to all!

In comments on some stories and private messages, we were asked to expand on what was said in this post: here: http://www.poringa.net/posts/relatos/4090726/Pensamientos-de-una-mente-swinger.html

We helped a friend who was writing for a magazine about sex, but the article never got published (nor did it really get finished), so we wanted to share some of this with you (plus half of it was already done)

Maxi, my friend Eve and I searched for several questionnaires on the internet, combined them, modified them, and created this one (which ended up in a horrible order). We sent it to Maxi separately and then joined it together for you:

Maxi: It's been months since they've been asking me to interview a swinger couple by accident I found out that a friend and his girlfriend are into that scene, so we stole some questionnaires from the internet, added some questions that came up to us three, and others very valuable ones that you sent, bunch of hot stuff.

I'm here with Santy and Eve, a friendly couple who is swinger, they do threesomes, partner swapping, and sometimes they even get together just the two of them.

Santy is 37 years old, Eve is 29. They're boyfriend and girlfriend, living together, and doing everything that any normal couple does and a little more too.

Let's go straight to the questionnaire...

M. What was the first thing that attracted you to your partner?
S: The physical appearance in general, precisely the butt, I won't lie, I prefer butt to breasts. After that, her attitude when she dared to come to my cabin. (This is told here: http://www.poringa.net/posts/relatos/3849980/Eve-mi-vecina-de-cabana.html)
E: The physical appearance, his gaze, his desire to have fun, and honestly, I was a little angry with my boyfriend at the time and had a bit of revenge in mind.

M. What do you like most about your body? And your partner's?
S: Both answers are butt.
E: I think my strong points are my breasts, which are operated on, and Santy's legs-butt combination has got some nice cutie.

M. Do you have any complexes about your physical appearance?
S: No, the quarantine made me gain weight A few kilos, but I'm already getting my energy up to make it to summer.

E: Cellulite, I have very little, but I hate it. As a younger girl, I was afraid of not being liked by men because of it, so with the years I learned that they don't care, generally only women look at that.

M. What led you to be a swinger?

S: I think everyone wants to fuck people who are not their partner, it's just about not being possessive and accepting it. Talking about it, agreeing on it, feeling comfortable, everything is possible.

E: Desire. Love includes sex, but sex doesn't have to include love, both of us understand that.

M. Do you believe in polyamory?

S: No, I don't think it exists, however it's not for me, but I have a friend who has been in a relationship with three people for years and she is the exception to the rule. It's a trieja MMH, between them they do what they want, but they wouldn't be with someone outside.

E: Yes, Santy has a friend who has such a relationship, but I don't think I would accept it in my own relationship.

M. What would you change about the intimacy of yourself and your partner?

S: Eve has too many tickles and from me when she grabs me while I'm sleepy there's no way to get energized, like if I'm very tired it's just one quick fuck and sleep.

E: From me that until I'm completely hot there are areas that people touch me and give me many tickles, I start laughing and ruin the moment, from Santy who doesn't realize and gives me tickles, then he's to blame, haha.

M. Do you regret anything about your past in terms of relationships?

S: No, because everything I did led me to where I am now and I'm happy. Of course, I hurt other people too, they also hurt me, but never with that intention. At least from my side.

E: No, all the good was good, all the bad was learning to be who I am today. However, I accept that there were some collateral damages to third parties, obviously without any intentions on my part.

M. What characteristics of your personality do you dislike? And those of your partner?

S: Mia that I'm a hard-headed one, from Eve that she is a... times it's very selfish, very only child badly raised.

E: I get angry easily and turn a difference of ideas into a fight, just like Santy learned to calm me down. From Santy who is stubborn, it costs him to give in, something gets stuck in his head and it's impossible to take that idea away from him.

M. How do you think a perfect couple relationship is?

S: Absolutely open in terms of communication. Everything is done with the agreement of both, but you have to know how to give in a little and value when the other person gives in. Just because it's an agreement between the two doesn't mean that both prefer to do exactly that at that moment, but if you understand that you have to do things for the other person.

E: Sorry for the cheesy comment, but mine with Santy, read the stories, haha. Actually, I think it has to be free, but every day, despite there may be bad moments, decide to be with the person who's next to you.

M. What is your greatest sexual fantasy?

S: Uh, this changes from day to day and it's not necessary to fulfill them, but today is to be fucking in a place full of people fucking. Not an orgy, if not each one is doing their own thing.

E: In the middle of a dance club, type party, I'm in a mini skirt or dress, Santy from behind, without anyone noticing, in front of friends, all like that. We already said when we can do it, we'll try until I find the perfect difference in height.

M. Do you like being tied up? And tying?

S: I don't do it much, but I love it. Let them do what they want and do what I want.

E: It's okay to vary every now and then, but I like feeling free, sometimes I get desperate when I'm tied up.

M. Do you like trying new things in bed?

S: Obvious, if not I'd get bored.

E: Yes, there's no other way to know what you like and don't. With certain things, I thought they wouldn't be for me and then I enjoyed them, and some other thing made my head spin that it was a bomb and when I tried it, I got disappointed.

M. Do you like having sex in public places?

S: I like the thrill it gives me, a lot.

E: Yes, but it has happened to me to get distracted, like on the beach, in the dunes, among bushes and listening to kids playing nearby.

M. Does it excite you when they look at you while having sex?

S: Yes, but I also get excited doing it without them noticing.

E: It depends who and the moment, it can heat me up or cool me down.

M. What perfumes/aromas excite you more?

S: As long as it's not a humid or dirty smell, everything is fine. Or baby perfume, I swear it makes my head hurt.

E: Citrus doesn't. Polo Blue and Armani Code drive me crazy. Historically it was Polo Black but my dad bought it for me and goodbye, now it seems paternal to me, Invictus used to like it, I gave it to my ex, we broke up and it no longer excites me, not because it reminds me of him but because now I reject the perfume. The Armani Code was introduced to me by Santy, it makes me melt.

M. With what sexual position do you scream with pleasure?

S: When I'm finishing a blow job and they're still sucking me while I finish. My eyes are left behind.

E: With anal sex, it's harder, if not in 4, I go crazy.

M. Do you like men and women?

S: I'm heteroflexible. I won't have sex only with a guy, but if there's a group, I don't have a problem being the active part.

E: Yes, I get hot with cuties, very much, in bed we understand each other better. But for a partner, I prefer a man.

M. Would you be willing to participate in an orgy?

S: Yes, but many things need to happen. I've participated, but honestly, more than 6 people is a mess.

E: Given the conditions, yes, but I need to feel very comfortable.

M. What do you think about taking pictures or filming while having sex?

S: I love it, but I would never share them.

E: I did it, I like looking at them afterwards and getting hot again or touching myself, but in the moment it distracts me.

M. Do you touch yourself thinking of your partner?

S: Yes, always in my fantasies and if it's with porn, I imagine her and me starring in the video.

E: If not with porn, yes, if with porn, I always look at cuties' porn. Don't you support in bed?
S: What the other person gets distracted, I get distracted too automatically.
E: When the sheet comes off from below and touches the mattress directly, I need to put it back and then we can keep fucking.

M. Do you like seeing your partner masturbating?
S: It really turns me on.
E: Yes, well, with Santy I never did it, yet, but a couple of times I did it looking at how the other person touches themselves. Then it gets hot, obvious.

M. What lingerie do you like best?
S: High-cut stockings with garters.
E: All of it, I have an arsenal of hot sets, bodysuits, everything, I know they turn me on more than my partner, they make me feel a empowered femme fatale.

M. Do you like sex toys?
S: Yes, to vary, they entertain me.
E: It's something I'm getting used to with the years, until I was 25 I rejected them. Very few times do I use them alone, but when we're hot and heavy sometimes I open the magic drawer and start taking out stuff, I have a lot, I like going to the sex shop every now and then and buying lots.

M. What's the first thing you look at when someone gets naked in front of you for the first time?
S: How depilated they are. It's not machist, it just really turns me on if they're 100% depilated and I feel like giving them oral sex.
E: The cock, obviously, but not the size or shape, as long as it's plump. I like when they have short hair, not depilated, but trimmed.

M. Do you think the size matters?
S: Yes, but... it has nothing to do with the pleasure it generates. Citing a friend: Big for sucking, normal for fucking, small for the ass and citing a friend who I give credit to having a big one that's intimidating: Yes, I have a big one, but I never could make an ass out of it.

E: Visually yes, at the time of pleasure absolutely not, except in extreme cases where they don't feel or hurt.

M. Are you interested in tantric sex?
S: Not now, when I'm 70 years old I'll tell you.
E: No way, I need action.

M. Have you had sex with strangers?
S: Depending on where you put the a unknown stick, but I need a chat, it has to attract me something more than the physical, but well, let's say yes. E: I rarely get turned on by someone on the first date, 3 times, not because I'm making myself out to be holy, if not that I don't get hot doing it, like going to a bowling alley and ending up in a hotel with a guy I met there. M. Do you like watching other people make love? S: Yes, it turns me on. E: Depending on who, but yes. M. Are you open-minded or more conservative? S: If I'm here, they already know, open-minded. E: Open-minded, but those around me think I'm conservative. My mom thinks I lost my virginity at 21 when I presented her with the first serious boyfriend. M. What's the most fun place you've had sex? How did you get there? S: A construction site, on a pile of gypsum plates, I took off the top ones so it wouldn't be dirty and that was it. One weekend I went to see a construction site with the girl I was dating at the time, no one was around and well, it happened. E: The beach. It's nice in movies, but in real life it's crap, sand gets everywhere, like in The Simpsons and if you go during the day you'll hear kids playing and the ice cream man. M. Have you tried the KamaSutra positions? S: Fiddling with the little book I had a cutie, some of them, then we got bored. E: No, I don't want to force something like that. M. Have you ever tried cybersex? S: Yes, photos, chats, calls, video calls, everything. E: Yes, but honestly it's not my thing, most men are a disaster ehhh cock cock they finish fast and then cut off. M. What preferences do you have when watching porn? S: Threesomes or swinger, always more than 2, generally with at least 2 cuties. E: I directly search for lesbian threesomes, very few videos are produced for women, not because of machismo, but because of the target audience, all men watch sex, but not all women. What famous person from your country and which international one do you fantasize about having sex with the most?
S: Argentina Celeste Cid, I can't describe what attracts me to her, it's the whole package. Mainly her mouth and gaze, in a description of my ideal woman's body, neither of them would enter by chance, someone like Sol Pérez would, but Celeste Cid drives me crazy. From outside Ester Expósito, I'm not doubting it for a second, she fulfills everything, but honestly, Celeste Cid heats me up more. No idea why, it's not reasonable.

E: Thanks to the previous Masterchef, I saw Gastón Dalmau again and he was really hot, now I listen to him talk with that peace he has sometimes and it drives me crazy, even though he's gay, but we do a trio with Santy and something bi must be in him. From outside Johnny Depp, not the one now, from a few years ago, disguised as Jack Sparrow, but please no smell like goat, perfumed.

M: Something weird that happened to you during sex.
S: I tore myself, my knee slipped off the edge of the bed and ended with a tear.

E: I was with a skinny guy who was so drunk he vomited next to the bed while we were having sex. Obviously it ended there for that night.

M: Would you have sex again with someone from your past? With whom?
S: There's a girl we used to date years ago, we always said we'd do a trio with another girl but never happened. I'll show her pictures and see if she gives me the OK and write to her to see what she's up to.

E: Yes, with a skinny guy I only saw once while having sex, just when his sister arrived and we cut it short. He moved away, he's married to 2 dudes, I think it's impossible.

M: Without giving names, who would you have sex with someone you only fantasized about and someone with whom you had chemistry but nothing happened and you'd still have sex?
S: A girl from school, we hooked up a lot of times with guys, Eve already knows, she's really great, I already threw a center to get her going and kicked the ball straight into the stands, upper plate and a former colleague from work years ago, we had

All the vibe, but nothing ever happened because she was in a relationship, now she's still with the same scrawny guy, but I don't know what's up, I'm going to throw her a message and see what she says. (I already did it and the ball fell in the same place as before).

E: My primary school boyfriend and a scrawny guy I met on a trip. I have both of them on social media, let's see what Santy thinks. They're in a relationship, but maybe they'll come alone or with their partners.

M. Ever wanted to swallow the earth during a sexual situation?

S: Very drunk, my dream cutie at the moment, first time with her, didn't stop and she started laughing and playing with my cock like it was a video game joystick. Another time, her little brother of 6 opened the door while she was sucking my cock.

E: Santy will laugh forever when he reads this because I didn't tell him, I accidentally farted during a 69. If guys, girls make us fart. The scrawny guy acted like an idiot and kept going, an Oscar for him.

M. What would you do first if you woke up as the opposite sex?

S: I'd touch my whole body and then try everything I can't as a man. Just hope I don't wake up feeling sick.

E: Scratch my balls to see if it's as fun as it seems and pee against a tree or in a urinal.

M. What was the craziest thing you did to have sex with someone?

S: I have two very different ones: I risked my life by sneaking into a cutie while her boyfriend was drunk in the next room, and the other I took a bond-train-subway-train ride really far from home to be with a cutie. This one counts because I did it for sex, but we didn't even go beyond kissing.

E: Managed 3 hours and 30 minutes of travel to visit a scrawny guy who had moved to Rosario and was really hot for me, a quick trip because he was in a relationship (he hadn't told me before) and instead of my plans to stay all weekend there I turned back the same day, punctured a tire on the way that the had to change alone and on top of that I got stuck in traffic, it took me 5 hours. I arrived, it was early morning, I called him anyway to yell at him, his phone was off, I left him a long message and blocked him from all sides. No idea what happened.

M. What sexual superpower would you like to have?
S: Cum without getting tired of cock. Until I was 25, sometimes I managed it, but goodbye youth full of hormones.
E: That my legs don't get tired when I'm on top.

M. How was your worst date?
S: The food was bad, we left the restaurant, drove 4 blocks in the car and had to stop to vomit on the sidewalk, a patrol officer passed by and thought I was drunk, wanted me to wait for another mobile with the breathalyzer test, the girl didn't know how to drive. I called an attorney friend, put him on speakerphone and let them leave me alone. On top of that, I hadn't even had a beer because I had a tournament the next day. I took the girl home, went to vomit in the bathroom, left her, vomited again and went to sleep. She didn't speak to me again. The next day I went to the tournament with the attitude of a champion, 10 minutes before the game I told my coach I couldn't play.

E: I was 18 or 19 years old, the guy I was dating came to pick me up from my parents' place, parking took too long and he crashed into a dumpster while trying to be cool. I had on a seatbelt, he didn't. I waited for the ambulance to arrive, they took him away and I walked to a friend's house so they wouldn't ask why I came back so early. The next day he showed up to give my dad the insurance information with a terrible excuse, his head bandaged and one leg in a cast. I told him off.

M. Were you unfaithful?
S: Yes, not to Eve but yes to others and many times.
E: Yes, in fact the first time I was with Santy I had a boyfriend.

M. Did they cheat on you and did you find out?
S: They cheated on me like everyone else and yes I found out, thought I had forgiven her, but no, at I started to take care of myself and I left. From death I come swaggering, from horns nobody swaggers.

M. What was the reason you left your last partner?
S: I wasn't happy, the relationship turned into a friendship where we would occasionally get it on, in fact we still talk, not fucking but talking amicably and we have several friends in common.
E: We weren't compatible at all, now I see it really easy, but back then I didn't and all my friends were telling me watch out.

M. Are you jealous?
S: Not at all.
E: Clearly not sexually, but if they don't give a damn and pay attention to someone else, yes, the toxic one comes out.

M. What's the worst crime you've committed?
S: I robbed a bank. It sounds bold, but it was a birome and I'm really not sure if it was from the bank or from a customer who forgot it there, but I just needed one and I was going to go to the library to buy it.
E: I insulted a cop. There was a police check, I was drunk, my friend driving wasn't, but she had an expired license plate, we got fined and when we were leaving I said everything to him.

M. What's the worst thing you've done while drunk?
S: Driving, clearly don't do it, I did like from a bar in a small town to my friend's field. My friend hadn't had anything, but he was having an asthma attack and had forgotten his inhaler at home, it was all rural road, I think I drank absolutely all the puddles and broke the front axle of the pickup truck.
E: Just told you recently, insulting a cop.

M. Ever thought about getting married?
S: Really not, but I do it to throw a huge party.
E: Never saw myself with any of my exes for the rest of my life, Santy wants to have an enormous party and that attracts me, we'll see.

M. Is there anything you wouldn't tell your family about your partner?
S: Exactly the same things they don't know about me, drugs, sex with people who aren't my partner. My parents are old-fashioned.
E: A lot, people who don't know me intimately think I'm super conservative.

M. How was... the time you felt worst rejected?
S: A girl told me many years ago the big I like you, but as a friend, not only did she reject me, but also said that and we weren't friends.
E: Thinking we were, what I told about Rosario, we had sex, but I felt rejected as a person, used.

M.What age and how was your first time?
S: Honestly, I don't remember if it was at 17 or 18. I have two brothers who are very close in age, I'm between them, and it was at a birthday party at their house, but it was almost my 18th birthday or just turned 18, in their room with a schoolmate, didn't even finish.
E: At 18, with my boyfriend from school, I went to his house, the parents were away on vacation. The two virgins, we didn't understand anything and he thought having sex was like in porn movies. Never gave him another chance.

M.Do you still enjoy flirting if you have a partner?
S: Yes, it's natural for me, I like when they pay attention to me.
E: I love feeling desired, I have a bit of a warm-up period, I have to accept it. It's my nature.

M.What do you think when in a swinger sexual act and your partner is with another person?
S: It turns me on to see that she's having fun and I know we're both having fun.
E: For example, if Santy is fucking with another cutie, I want to be that cutie, not because of jealousy, but because it turns me on and I want him to screw me like that, exactly in the same position.

M.What would you recommend to a couple who wants to enter the world of swinging?
S: That they talk a lot between them, without filters, with respect, with fantasies, without judging and if everything is fine, then try it, I know it's not for everyone to see your partner have an orgasm with someone else.
E: 100% communication and never do it if you're not good as a couple. Never after a fight.

M.Well, guys, thanks for the answers!!! Hope you enjoyed the time. One more question... Would you get angry with me?
S: I like you, but as a friend, haha! Hey! I hope you liked it or at least found it entertaining, if you have any more questions you can leave them in the comments and we'll be responding to them. Don't be stingy with the points!

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