Infidility is one of the most frequent reasons why couples decide to end their relationship. However, in current times there exists a new fetish that seeks this type of deception, whether real or imaginary, withThe objective of achieving pleasure and increasing the flame of passion in the couple.It's about theCuckolding.
This peculiar fetish modality consists in thata woman has relations with another man and then tells her partner what she experienced in this encounteror else, this exercise of spectator during the sexual relationship. Curiously, from here, passion in the couple's relationship is reborn again.
In this practice, it is referred to asCuckoldsto those men who allow their partnerA wife or husband maintains sexual relations with other men while he sits alone to observe. In many cases, they are the ones who encourage their partners to perform this type of act, where she cheats on him with another man to get more sexual excitement.
Now thenDon't confuse the termCuckoldingWith himvoyeurism.This last one consists of the act of observing other people naked, in underwear or maintaining sexual relations without them being aware of it with the aim of getting excited.
For people who practice the
Cuckolding
Ensuring your partner's freedom to express their sexuality is a significant source of excitement that can become fetishism.
It's said that CuckoldingIt's an alternative lifestyleof faster growth and, whether couples incorporate it as a fantasy role-playing game or as reality, attracts women and men at primary, intellectual, and sociopolitical levels. In fact, it has been called intellectual fetishism.
A personthat practicesCuckoldinggets sexually excited by the fantasy or reality where his/her partner isto whom she considers attractive, maintainsSexual relationshipsWith another person, generally with someone similar to their alter ego.
The doctor Leon Seltzer asserts that the excitement produced by this type of situations can be originated byThe vicarious experimentation of the sexual relationship that is usually led as the protagonistIn other words, somehow acting as a spectator increases levels of excitement.
Moreover, we cannot forgetThe powerful role that transgression has in theCuckoldingSo much for both woman and man. For the first it would represent contact with what is forbidden through the rupture of the '...FaithfulnessAnd for the second one, the act of pushing the couple to transgress.
A survey in the US has revealed that 58% of men and a third of women have fantasized at some point about being 'consenting cheaters'.
What are we looking for with this fetishism?
The experts opine on the reason why thisSexual practiceIt may appeal to a certain type of people, mostly men:
For some, it is considered as a variant of masochismFeeling humiliated by the partner is important for defenders of this variant. However, the fact that practitioners of this modality do not attract other forms of sadomasochism makes this option somehow be discarded.According to other theoriesIt wouldn't be a way of being dominated but rather of dominatingsince it is man who decides when and under what conditions he gets cheated on.It's possible to believe in other cases that it's about one of them.Escape formOr what's the same, its defenders unconsciously use it to avoid their own sexual responsibilities in another man.There are also those who think that the fact ofturning the woman into an object hypersexedExtremely desired by another man, while one thinks it still belongs to him, making some people feel like a symbol of status.Masking theBisexualityIt's another possible explanation. To make believe that it is the woman who produces excitement and to take advantage of this mask to observe a man without restraints performing the sexual act, could be one of the reasons for its practice.
It matters what the explanation is, it's clear that...those who practice it freely and consciously fully enjoy this fetish.In the freedom and needs of each human being is to put it into practice or conversely, to qualify it as an impossible act.
In fetishism, sex tears down the barriers between organic and inorganic worlds. Clothing and accessories establish alliances with it.
Walter Benjamin
Is it a positive experience?
According to a recent study by David Ley, Justin Lehmiller and writer Dan Savage, the practice or fantasy of
Cuckolding
It can be a largely positive experience for many couples
and barely a sign of weakness.
Now then, it is of vital importance that the members of
The couple have great confidence and respect
When it comes to consenting to this type of relationships and taking it as a game to rekindle the flame of passion. I mean, it's about the two connecting and enjoying those acts, without demands or pressures.
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