Petting

Sex=penetration. Your body and mind, male Peruvian, may not understand or accept it. How won't you penetrate? If that's your great objective, if you show off -big or small, thick or thin- your beloved penis.

The so-called petting that many women dream of but few enjoy due to the misunderstanding of their partners focuses on physical contact between both without reaching orgasm. Caresses, kisses, rubs... Penetration is not a necessity (not an obligation) nor is orgasm the only goal of the encounter.

The game is so exciting that, according to experts, the experience will leave both satisfied. In petting, you can use your hands, mouth, tongue, or any other part of your body. Anything goes, except penetration. A survey on sexual practices in Spain revealed that 46.5% of the population could have full sex without reaching penetration. The rest said it was IMPOSSIBLE. Almost half of women approved this practice. And 53.5% of young people between 14 and 29 years old also bet on sex without coitus.

Sex is more than penetration. Limiting the matter to what your penis does or accepting that you will be penetrated because that's how it is takes away the opportunity to enjoy yourself. Petting can be gratifying and can even lead to orgasm. And remember: penetrating your lover is not a guarantee that she will reach orgasm. How many women know very well what it is like to have a penis inside, but don't know the tingling of preorgasm.

If I don't penetrate her, I feel like I haven't done anything, says Alfonso in Peru's sex forum. His comment doesn't surprise, since most men have that perception. However, we should be clear -says Argentine sexologist Juan Carlos Kusnetzoff- that there is no incomplete sexual encounter. Sex should never be incomplete, but rather a wonderful option to try different forms of exploring sexuality. The body of a man and the body of a woman have unimaginable places that can provide pleasure and satisfaction without There must be penetration, he explains. Kusnetzoff argues that in Latin America it is considered complete the sexual act that culminates with vaginal penetration. It's a classic example of machismo that usually makes women suffer, who cannot convince their 'men' to satisfy them not only through penetration, but also with caresses, kisses, and hugs.