Ladies and gentlemen
The million-dollar question of the Cuckold.
I think I should have received that question over 1000 times by now.
How do I convince my wife?
Let's start at the beginning:
First of all:
There is no single formula or recipe that works for any woman to accept having sex with another one in a consensual manner.
Each woman is a world. Each wife has a different personality from others. Each girlfriend has her own way of living her sexuality. Each couple has its own way of communicating, understanding each other, managing their time, and sharing (or not) pleasure.
Could All Wives and Fiancées Around the World Possibly Enjoy Having a Cuckold Relationship?
OF COURSE NOT. FINALLY NOT.
The cuckold is a lifestyle in couple that IS NOT FOR ALLS/AS.
Why?
1. Because not all women will have the desire to do it. Not everyone has to like it and that's okay.
Because not all women will be willing to make it real.
Maybe some people would like the idea but only as an idea or fantasy, not making it reality.
3. Because not all husbands and boyfriends will be willing to make it real. Many may enjoy the fantasy and game, the thrill and adrenaline. But one thing is imagining it and another is seeing live and direct how someone else is about to put their cock in your wife or girlfriend's pussy. The intensity of the experience is different. (It doesn't mean they can't enjoy fantasizing)
Let's see something important:
If each woman is a world apart. In a very general sense, there are 3 big categories. 3 ways in which wives or girlfriends can live sexuality.
There are women who live sex as a routine. Sex doesn't interest them on their own account. They only take or do what they do to keep the husband happy. If it were up to them, they wouldn't do anything or practically nothing sexual. In this case, maybe some might end up having sex with the cuckold, but they'll do it only because they're following along with the husband or boyfriend. Not because it interests, pleases, or entertains them in particular.
2 - On the other hand are women who do enjoy sex on their own account, but ONLY WITH THEIR PARTNER. They are monogamous women and it doesn't interest them at all to include third parties. It's very respectable, but of course it's totally incompatible with sexual fantasies and games like Cuckold.
3 - And finally, there are women who enjoy their sexuality and are willing to engage in sexual games with their partner that include third parties. This is obviously the ideal case for a cuckold couple, but it's clear that women like this are a minority. Not many are really like that.
Another very important factor:
What Things Make Women Reject Proposals of Being a Cuckold Couple?
There are many reasons. Let's go with the most typical ones:
DO YOU PROPOSE THIS TO ME AS WELL SO I CAN SLEEP WITH OTHERS?
That's a typical fear and idea that many wives and girlfriends have. I heard it many times.
Many may end up distrusting him just because they think that 'permission' their husband or boyfriend gives them is so he can go and do his own thing afterwards...
In a cuckold couple this shouldn't happen like this. It's supposed to be the husband who remains sexually faithful. If not, we would be talking about an open relationship, a swinging couple, a threesome couple, polyamory, etc., etc
FEAR OF NOT BEING LIKED. FEAR OF NOT FEELING WANTED. FEAR OF REJECTION
There are many women who, when their partner proposes meeting other men, may think 'What if I don't like them?' 'What if I don't turn them on?'
That type of issue usually lingers in the minds of women and affects their moods and self-esteem. Something that can complicate the situation of a cuckold and make it impossible.
THE ISSUE OF SECURITY:
It's not that simple for a woman to get to know men. Don't forget we're in an era where many girls disappear, many women are kidnapped. There are many human trafficking networks. A lot of amateur and private material gets filtered and used clandestinely as pornography without anyone's permission. There are many dangers. That also plays a role.
The fear that many women may have of getting attached to the bull. The fear of falling in love with someone who is not her husband or boyfriend.
And in this already plays how strong the bond of the couple is. And how clear or not clear they both have things.
THE FEAR THAT EVERYTHING WILL END BADLY.
The fear that everything will end in the worst way, that it won't turn out well and we'll be fighting like a couple, separating, etc.
In fine, there are many reasons that make forming a cuckold couple not an entirely easy task.
What things are fundamental for it to be possible to do it?
OPEN MIND
Genuine Enjoyment of Sexuality
INTHESITY (If they're not honest and transparent, doing something like cuckolding is almost impossible, and if they do it has many chances of ending in a total mess)
COMPLICITY AND UNION IN THE COUPLE (It is supposed to be a game for both of them to enjoy)
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Que bueno lo que comentas.
Y si, suele no ser del todo fácil. Pero si hay confianza, honestidad y ganas de pasarla bien, se termina dando. Abrazo y los felicitamos. 😉😉
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