Okay let's revisit an issue we already discussed a while back. And it has 28,000 ways of being seen, thousands of possible opinions. We're talking about this again because several husbands and boyfriends wrote me saying they really wanted their wife to get screwed by someone else, they wanted to experience being a cuck cuckold. And that they started realizing, suspecting or knowing for sure... That the horns are already theirs. That their wives or girlfriends are already screwing them in secret.
This obviously can be true: Today millions and millions of people are cheating on their partners. And it's important to know that it can happen for a lot of reasons. So it's important to know, before doing anything. If she kicks me in the back, why does she do it? There are women who can do it as revenge, because they don't feel loved, cared for or desired. Others because they compete with other women (and wanted to eat their husband from the friend, colleague, cousin, sister, etc...), others simply because they don't know how to say no (not because they're promiscuous, but due to fear, shame, timidity, etc.), others because they feel a lot of attraction to what's forbidden, etc., etc., etc. Each couple is a world, each one will have their reason, good or bad. Acceptable or not. According to who. Then the main thing is to know the reason. Thinking, remembering and asking the right questions, a husband has great chances of realizing why he got two whacks on the head...Now well, if the reason is hostile or they're fighting, or she doesn't feel loved, etc, etc. The ideal is to be able to talk about it and solve it. Correct and improve that which she needs and feels she doesn't have. (And then decide whether to continue with the couple, separate, or whatever...) But what happens in this case, when the husband or boyfriend WANTS her to cuck him?He could get just as angry, considering it a betrayal, for not doing it consensually. Which is respectable and many times accurate. But he can also accept it. Weigh everything on the scale to see what's heavier; if his desire to have a woman make him cuck or her lack of honesty in being like that, speaking creole, makes him shit. And that takes us to another reason why an wife or girlfriend may be unfaithful: The same one that gives sense to many cucks. Maybe she loves her partner, wants it, cares for it, is happy with it, they have a great time, share everything, peeeeero isn't sexually satisfied with him. And has crossed paths with someone who leaves her with an ear-to-ear smile from the well-satisfied one. It's questionable that she's lying to her husband or boyfriend. But what can the husband or boyfriend aspiring cuck cuckold do if he has to live this situation? The guy wants to be cuck, wants his woman to get excited with others... and discovers (slowly or suddenly) that he already has more horns than a deer (maybe it was a while ago, maybe it was recently, maybe just one, maybe several). Obviously there are many ways to react, as we said. And the most important decision he has to make is: Do I get angry and talk to her, separate from her, etc? or do I accept this and see how to lead towards a cuckolding couple?How often, we don't have the only truth. We can only give our opinion and what we've learned through experience and observation:And our stance is as follows: If you really want to be a cuckold, you've decided, you know what you like. And you consider your wife unfaithful because you don't sexually satisfy her, because you don't see a virile man in the sexual sense and if she sees it in another or others...
Encourage her to forgive you, and prepare yourself to accept it.
Did you want to be a cuck? Well, that's what you are. Your desire is satisfied. Only remains to solve how she stops being hidden with lies and hiding places.
How do I tell my wife that I'm aware?
A great question and great issue: It will depend on the dynamics of each couple, at what moment they're going through, the personality of each woman, and many other things.
Personally, I think if one knows their partner loves them, knows they're not sexually satisfied, and knows they're seeing someone else...
It's ideal to:
At first, act like a fool as much as possible. Simulate in the most realistic way that you know absolutely nothing. That you didn't find out.
And at the same time, make it easy for her: Leave her alone more often, so she can set up her space and times to see others. Don't bother her.
Pay close attention to details: If she changes her schedule, if she goes out with friends more often, if she's late, IF SHE ASKS HER HUSBAND OR BOYFRIEND ABOUT HIS SCHEDULE...(A detail that confirms the horns a lot)
And in that sense, follow her game fully. If she asks you Tomorrow before 6 are you...? Tomorrow before 6 aren't there haha. Go for a walk, do something, etc. Stay busy.
Let her know she has free rein when you suspect she's gone, send her an innocent message like I love you, I'm delayed with something..., Don't interrogate her. Don't give signs that you know.
After that, it would be ideal to let the situation unfold on its own. Because if you go and accuse her of something...she might deny it, back off, get angry. The situation will take another turn. They'll argue or whatever.Instead, if the situation unravels on its own...
She'll only have to tell the truth and talk to you...
At that moment, it's just right, with subtlety, tact, being very clear, without being threatening or too intense, to start confessing the truth: That you want to be cucked, and far from being angry, you like the situation. (Explaining everything you feel and think about it as best you can).
From then on, she'll probably be surprised (maybe not), and see what to do.
You're left to encourage her. Generate trust with her. Say you forgive her. That you don't hold a grudge or seek revenge or anything like that.
And because why not...give her a nice lingerie or provocative clothing set as a sign that from now on...she can misbehave without rushing or hiding.
21 comentários - Qué pasa si queres cuernos y te enteras de que ya los tené
Van a surgir preguntas en sus cabezas cuando se enfrien un poco...
"porque lo hizo a mis espaldas si yo le di la libertad de hacerlo?"
La respuesta puede no gustarles...
Se puede ir todo muy al carajo como bien lo explica el post.
Dicho esto, hay que incentivar en todo momento.. implacablemente, pero sin presionar... a veces nos copamos y no nos damos cuenta.. hay que dar un paso atras, esperar un poco y continuar.
En el caso de que ya sospechamos.. hay que continuar como si nada.. creo yo.. seguir haciendo lo mismo.. buscar el tema de conversacion pero siempre con pies de plomo.. a ella siempre le va a quedar la duda de cual va a ser tu reaccion al enterarte de que te esta haciendo cornudo..
Entonces hay que buscar la manera de que ella se convenza y gane confianza, que se haga normal cosas como que te diga que le parece lindo un flaco cuando estas paseando con ella en la calle... osea, dejar que se valla soltando y que tus reacciones siempre siempre siempre sean positivas...
Un comentario mas arriba dice que el le dejaba preservativos a disposicion.. bueno yo fui los compre delante de ella y le hize que los lleve siempre en su mochila... por las dudas... obvio que sus respuestas siempre fueron negativas y que jamas uso "esos" preservativos... pero la idea estaba planteada...
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