I'm a consumer of pornography. I'm a consumer, even though it bothers me. I adapted so well to this crappy planet that I ended up losing something. It's not about expiating guilt; there are facts that can't be erased from memory, and maybe it's good that way. A few days ago, a few years ago, there was something in this community, mostly composed (I'm referring, I think, to the active members) of people who were messed up. I want to believe, although I don't know for sure.
I was re-reading and it seems like one of those speeches from alcoholics anonymous that appear in movies, so maybe it's just about expiating guilt. Anyway, I'm not clear if this serves any purpose or not; if it's just a mental masturbation exercise or if I'm really trying to convey some idea. I want to believe it's either one of those two things or something else I don't know.
So I'll keep going and if you feel like reading, I'm happy, and if not, well, it's here.
There's a lot of violence in porn. I don't know if it's good or bad. Who knows what the truth is? Is it a reflection of our society? What do I know; there are infinite answers because I can't assert ad nauseam that what I said, namely that there's a lot of violence, is actually true. But the adjectives/nouns/whatever like promiscuous, submissive, humiliated, cuck and all the same ones repeated in feminine form ;) have violence attached to their structure.
In a beautiful experience I had not too long ago, I discovered or recognized myself, or something, the urge to tell the person with whom I shared that indescribably beautiful moment (who knows if I didn't dream it) that I wanted to say slut. And I kept thinking about it. And I still do. Because there's something there that stinks.
Dolina said someone said (I don't remember who) something like everything was about sex, except the sex that was about power. What bothers me, what seems to stink, is the following interpretation of some arbitrarily chosen facts (wrote caught, yeah) to demonstrate a point: If we live in a community that belongs to a predominantly globalized world with capitalism as the main economic system. If that capitalism creates a social darwinism or something similar, quite tangible (I'm referring for example to this note published last year https://www.oxfam.org/es/sala-de-prensa/notas-de-prensa/2017-01-16/ocho-personas-poseen-la-misma-riqueza-que-la-mitad-más) and I don't know if it's true or not, but it's quite probable. And that already seems violent to me in a world where 7 and a half billion people live. Maybe they read or heard a phrase that says violence only generates more violence. And then, assuming the latter were true, that initial violent fact (by marking a location in this ouroboros) would be generating more and more, until it reaches someone begging for coins on the subway, still having to justify their existence or work juggling for other people immersed in their cellphones. And it reproduces, replicates, in an unlimited objectification of the woman's body. This topic is trendy with feminism. I think that's happy-making. The revolution will be feminist or won't be anything. I'm thinking about that phrase and something inside me feels good because I feel all good. If supposedly there are more women than men, then it's very probable that the phrase is true. But meanwhile, we have to stop downloading violence onto them. Because I think that's what we've been doing, I think that's true because it corresponds with several facts that occurred or were perceived in a certain way and then we made them true, part of our history. Because we construct our history with daily actions, I think that's true. And daily we are witnesses/participants/complices of micro-machisms or macro-machisms and contribute to their naturalization. And the machismo apart from a power structure, it's a violence structure towards women. I don't want that for the planet, I don't want that for my life. I'm not saying we're worthless humans and can't be saved, I'm saying that's what we've learned, that's what we see, that's what sells. If violence breeds more violence, if sex is still a taboo, maybe that's where it expresses itself most. Because in a world where almost everything is public, sex tries to be private. This isn't meant to be a criticism of what they call free love, I don't think I can start to understand it in any way that satisfies me and for now I won't get involved. The notion of bodies enjoying, the description of physical sensations results in something so inextricable that trying to put it into words is very difficult for me. So it's not going there. But if when they appear in the middle of the game those words that connote violence do, and it seems to me that that's something from the world that filters through, and maybe it won't be so grave. But maybe it will be. I, out of caution, open my umbrella while.link:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xglTGuDd1-MPseudo clarifying note: When I write well or badly:
I think about it that those judgments are intrinsic to a closed system and are in permanent change. For me they are judgments that resolve themselves in the collective social imaginary and their sentences (some contradictory, always partial) emerge in various ways in human behaviors.
:) https://www.pagina12.com.ar/96884-el-cuerpo-lo-ponemos-nosotras
Pd: Yes, I get annoyed somewhere, happy elsewhere.
I was re-reading and it seems like one of those speeches from alcoholics anonymous that appear in movies, so maybe it's just about expiating guilt. Anyway, I'm not clear if this serves any purpose or not; if it's just a mental masturbation exercise or if I'm really trying to convey some idea. I want to believe it's either one of those two things or something else I don't know.
So I'll keep going and if you feel like reading, I'm happy, and if not, well, it's here.
There's a lot of violence in porn. I don't know if it's good or bad. Who knows what the truth is? Is it a reflection of our society? What do I know; there are infinite answers because I can't assert ad nauseam that what I said, namely that there's a lot of violence, is actually true. But the adjectives/nouns/whatever like promiscuous, submissive, humiliated, cuck and all the same ones repeated in feminine form ;) have violence attached to their structure.
In a beautiful experience I had not too long ago, I discovered or recognized myself, or something, the urge to tell the person with whom I shared that indescribably beautiful moment (who knows if I didn't dream it) that I wanted to say slut. And I kept thinking about it. And I still do. Because there's something there that stinks.
Dolina said someone said (I don't remember who) something like everything was about sex, except the sex that was about power. What bothers me, what seems to stink, is the following interpretation of some arbitrarily chosen facts (wrote caught, yeah) to demonstrate a point: If we live in a community that belongs to a predominantly globalized world with capitalism as the main economic system. If that capitalism creates a social darwinism or something similar, quite tangible (I'm referring for example to this note published last year https://www.oxfam.org/es/sala-de-prensa/notas-de-prensa/2017-01-16/ocho-personas-poseen-la-misma-riqueza-que-la-mitad-más) and I don't know if it's true or not, but it's quite probable. And that already seems violent to me in a world where 7 and a half billion people live. Maybe they read or heard a phrase that says violence only generates more violence. And then, assuming the latter were true, that initial violent fact (by marking a location in this ouroboros) would be generating more and more, until it reaches someone begging for coins on the subway, still having to justify their existence or work juggling for other people immersed in their cellphones. And it reproduces, replicates, in an unlimited objectification of the woman's body. This topic is trendy with feminism. I think that's happy-making. The revolution will be feminist or won't be anything. I'm thinking about that phrase and something inside me feels good because I feel all good. If supposedly there are more women than men, then it's very probable that the phrase is true. But meanwhile, we have to stop downloading violence onto them. Because I think that's what we've been doing, I think that's true because it corresponds with several facts that occurred or were perceived in a certain way and then we made them true, part of our history. Because we construct our history with daily actions, I think that's true. And daily we are witnesses/participants/complices of micro-machisms or macro-machisms and contribute to their naturalization. And the machismo apart from a power structure, it's a violence structure towards women. I don't want that for the planet, I don't want that for my life. I'm not saying we're worthless humans and can't be saved, I'm saying that's what we've learned, that's what we see, that's what sells. If violence breeds more violence, if sex is still a taboo, maybe that's where it expresses itself most. Because in a world where almost everything is public, sex tries to be private. This isn't meant to be a criticism of what they call free love, I don't think I can start to understand it in any way that satisfies me and for now I won't get involved. The notion of bodies enjoying, the description of physical sensations results in something so inextricable that trying to put it into words is very difficult for me. So it's not going there. But if when they appear in the middle of the game those words that connote violence do, and it seems to me that that's something from the world that filters through, and maybe it won't be so grave. But maybe it will be. I, out of caution, open my umbrella while.link:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xglTGuDd1-MPseudo clarifying note: When I write well or badly:
I think about it that those judgments are intrinsic to a closed system and are in permanent change. For me they are judgments that resolve themselves in the collective social imaginary and their sentences (some contradictory, always partial) emerge in various ways in human behaviors.
:) https://www.pagina12.com.ar/96884-el-cuerpo-lo-ponemos-nosotras
Pd: Yes, I get annoyed somewhere, happy elsewhere.
3 comentários - 8M
La frase sobre sexo y poder entiendo que pertenece a Oscar Wilde...
En cuanto a los calificativos que mencionás, creo que todo depende del contexto en que se usen, cualquier palabra puede resultar ofensiva o estimulante, dependiendo de la situación, si concuerdo con que la violencia es despreciable en todas sus expresiones.
porno no es solo la mierda que hace la industria en california, que es pobre, mononormada, machista e irremediablemente boba, tambien hay pintura fotografia dibujo video y literatura pornografica que son expresiones artiticas, hay que buscar.
En cuanto al uso del lenguaje, por supuesto que es un campo de batalla conceptual pero ojo que las cosas se pueden resignificar, por ejemplo la agrupacion "putos peronistas" o incontables "putas feministas"
por ultimo, tambien dudo de estar en P!