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Aaron: My real name is Aaron, but in porn I'm known as Small Hands (small hands), because I have small hands for my height and age. When I had to do all the paperwork, I thought, 'Damn it, I don't have a nickname!' so I chose something I thought would be fun. Plus, you know what they say about people with small hands...

Okay. I wanted a fun name because I'm always joking around. Before going out with Joanna, I had no experience in front of the camera. Technically, I'm not made for porn; I have another job and basically make porn when the queen asks me to.

I'm an illustrator and graphic designer. I design websites for companies. That's how I met Joanna. She was my client before we started dating. I design all the covers of her DVDs and movies, posters for her company, and all commercial material. That's my main function. A mutual friend put us in touch to talk business and everything else came from there.

At first it was a bit... tough, not the word, jokes aside. It was strange, all that industry was a great unknown to me. I didn't know how it worked. I've played in groups for many years and in my opinion the music industry is very similar to the porn one. Obviously, as our relationship was getting closer and I knew better about the scene, I felt more comfortable.

We were on a trip and there was a problem with the hard drive. Websites need to be updated regularly but something went wrong and we lost the updates. I don't know what happened. 'We have to put something on the web, seriously', she said to me. 'Do you think we could improvise something in the hotel room?' At first, I showed a bit of reluctance. I wasn't prepared for that, but of course, I care about my girlfriend and her business

And I needed my help, so I told him that okay, I would do what I could. We filmed a very simple scene in the hotel and surprisingly it cost me very little and turned out quite well. It had good reception, so I thought, If this helps the company, why not keep doing it?

It has made me stronger. Now that I know how it works, things that would worry anyone else don't bother me. The most common question is, 'How can you date someone who has sex with others?' Now I know how everything really works. This is a woman-owned business, an extremely controlled and very safe environment. It's not anything seedy, considering what we do.

We days of filming try not to waste two hours with a Kama Sutra sex session. Joanna is not only an actress but also directs everything and owns the studio. We're talking about 14-hour shifts: you end up exhausted, with or without sex. Everyone works flat out and when you get home you're tired. Maybe we have dinner, take the dog for a walk and crawl into bed huddled together. The rest of the days we're like any couple. We like sex and having fun, it's just that we're more open.

VICE: Hey, Tyler! How's it like having a girlfriend who's always the center of attention?

Tyler: Well, of course, people are interested in her because she shows herself sometimes.

People would tell me, 'I saw your girlfriend on the news'. I think it's not a cross for her to be in the world of porn; she's not at all the stereotype of a porn star, despite the bad reputation she has gained.

I don't hate that she makes porn, I don't judge her. The truth is that it makes my life more interesting! Sydney isn't what she seems and her reputation doesn't do justice to her personality. When I met her and talked to her, I didn't intend to go out with her and live together, but we have a lot of chemistry, he's really great.

We're very similar in many ways and very different in many others. She's introverted and I'm more outgoing. It's good because we complement each other. If I were like her, we'd be interrupting each other all the time. I'm very analytical and technical. You might think that only porn stars date other porn stars. At first, I was very surprised at how affectionate she can be, nothing of 'Oh, let's go and get it on!'

My best friends support me. People respect her a lot. I think I had a distorted concept of the adult industry before, but it's all very mechanical and quite different from what you imagine. The average porn consumer doesn't have a precise idea of what happens. In the end, they're human beings, whether you believe it or not.

I'm a protector, but we have a lot of trust, otherwise it wouldn't work. We have absolute mutual trust and tell each other everything. We've talked about intimacy and it's not just about sex, but about sharing the same goals and aspirations. She helps me move forward in my life.

Many people want to screw my girlfriend. He never threatened me; on the contrary, he was always very respectful. On my birthday, he said, 'Happy Birthday, Master Tyler'.

No, although everyone thinks we should have an enviable sexual life, and it's true!

Donald: I was at the AVN Awards ceremony. I had gone to have a good time and chase after a bunch of good girls. A few days before my trip to Las Vegas, I called a couple of friends and said, 'Let's go crazy for real and dress up as superhero costumes.' I arrived before my friends, bought a bottle of Cruzan rum, and went up to my room at the Hard Rock Hotel. Suddenly, I thought I didn't need anyone to start the party, so I put on my Captain Améyummy costume and took a swig of the rum.

Most fans who attend AVN are overweight, so girls love meeting someone who knows how to talk to them and is wearing a Captain Améyummy costume and just wants to have fun. We started talking and I wrapped my superhero arms around her. As she's a goofball, she said, 'I'm not wearing underwear', and as I'm a goofball too, I said 'Let's see if it's true'.

And what happened next?

I didn't know I had a radio program. When I got back from Las Vegas, I put it on to listen to it. I was wondering if he'd say anything, and indeed, he spent the entire hour describing our sexcapades in great detail. I sent the audio to my ex-girlfriend to cut ties with her.

How is it to go out with a porn star compared to going out with a civilian?

I've been progressing towards relationships with women who are increasingly sexual. Lawyers and doctors, waitresses and strippers, and then I started going out with porn actresses. I've opened up the way. I've had many experiences with open relationships and have practiced sex in clubs. I also went to see her on set while a Russian guy was screwing her with an enormous cock and we all came together, like, 'That's my girl!'