A question that has always caught our attention is the fact that bisexual fantasies seem to be much more rooted in women than in men.
In a homemade survey we conducted among friends and acquaintances, we found that 70% of the women in our social circle had bisexual fantasies or at least recognized that some women would provoke sexual desires in them, and 30% directly had the recurring fantasy of having sex with a woman. Similarly, 20% acknowledged having kissed another girl, and 5% having had sex with another woman. We repeated, it's a homemade survey among about 60 people from real life and the internet.
On the other hand, 80% of men denied ever fantasizing about anything with another man, 10% recognized that some guys seemed attractive to them but rejected the idea of being with them (not even kissing), 5% recognized having sexual fantasies about certain men (curiously they said they felt attracted to men with feminine features), 5% acknowledged having had some contact with another man, and within that same group barely 0.5% acknowledged having had sexual relations with another man (in this case those who recognized it already accepted themselves and presented themselves as bi or gay before the survey)
Curiously, in the group of 80% that denied the possibility of fantasizing about a man, when the question changed and instead of talking about a man we talked about a transvestite transexual, the responses changed: 50% recognized having fantasized about screwing or getting screwed by one, and within that group 15% recognized having had relations with one (within that group 12% acknowledged having screwed or gotten screwed and barely 3% recognized having been fucked)
Conclusions? They could be as follows:
-Men are much more fetishistic, for them clothing is very important if not determinant, it's a symbol of gender that transcends the sexual (that would also explain the fact confirmed by many of us that a woman dressed and made up in a sensual way can turn them on more than a very beautiful but disheveled woman)
-Men, having an active sexual role of penetration, have terror at the idea of being penetrated (another curiosity: 60% of the group of 80% who rejected the possibility of having sex with another man also considered it gay that a woman would penetrate them with a toy or finger), so the presence of another penis can be considered a risk to their own sexual identity, unless there is a receptive subject, namely a woman or a passive transvestite
-Women, having a sexual role of reception are more open and empathetic towards other women, empathizing more with them. The act of caressing another woman does not put her sexual integrity at risk, and in her fantasy she can share the penis without fear of putting her identity at risk, since she will always remain receptive even if she plays for a moment to be the one who penetrates
-Finally: women have natural beauty and harmony that when enhanced by clothing and makeup is attractive both to men and women. Men, on the other hand, inspire more aggressive and coarse feelings, which would explain why masculine-feminine men are precisely those who integrate recognized male homosexual fantasies.
-Well, these are homemade conclusions from a CASUAL survey that, with our curiosity and concern as researchers, we have conducted on a topic that has always fascinated us. A few years ago we saw the movie Kinsey and since then we have had the desire to one day conduct a massive and professional survey in our country, segmenting it by regions, unfortunately for now it is something distant because something like this is very expensive and in a society quite Influenced by conservative values, it's doubtful that someone would be interested in something like this. Please take it only as entertainment, and we'd love to know your opinions or experiences about it!
In a homemade survey we conducted among friends and acquaintances, we found that 70% of the women in our social circle had bisexual fantasies or at least recognized that some women would provoke sexual desires in them, and 30% directly had the recurring fantasy of having sex with a woman. Similarly, 20% acknowledged having kissed another girl, and 5% having had sex with another woman. We repeated, it's a homemade survey among about 60 people from real life and the internet.
On the other hand, 80% of men denied ever fantasizing about anything with another man, 10% recognized that some guys seemed attractive to them but rejected the idea of being with them (not even kissing), 5% recognized having sexual fantasies about certain men (curiously they said they felt attracted to men with feminine features), 5% acknowledged having had some contact with another man, and within that same group barely 0.5% acknowledged having had sexual relations with another man (in this case those who recognized it already accepted themselves and presented themselves as bi or gay before the survey)
Curiously, in the group of 80% that denied the possibility of fantasizing about a man, when the question changed and instead of talking about a man we talked about a transvestite transexual, the responses changed: 50% recognized having fantasized about screwing or getting screwed by one, and within that group 15% recognized having had relations with one (within that group 12% acknowledged having screwed or gotten screwed and barely 3% recognized having been fucked)
Conclusions? They could be as follows:
-Men are much more fetishistic, for them clothing is very important if not determinant, it's a symbol of gender that transcends the sexual (that would also explain the fact confirmed by many of us that a woman dressed and made up in a sensual way can turn them on more than a very beautiful but disheveled woman)
-Men, having an active sexual role of penetration, have terror at the idea of being penetrated (another curiosity: 60% of the group of 80% who rejected the possibility of having sex with another man also considered it gay that a woman would penetrate them with a toy or finger), so the presence of another penis can be considered a risk to their own sexual identity, unless there is a receptive subject, namely a woman or a passive transvestite
-Women, having a sexual role of reception are more open and empathetic towards other women, empathizing more with them. The act of caressing another woman does not put her sexual integrity at risk, and in her fantasy she can share the penis without fear of putting her identity at risk, since she will always remain receptive even if she plays for a moment to be the one who penetrates
-Finally: women have natural beauty and harmony that when enhanced by clothing and makeup is attractive both to men and women. Men, on the other hand, inspire more aggressive and coarse feelings, which would explain why masculine-feminine men are precisely those who integrate recognized male homosexual fantasies.
-Well, these are homemade conclusions from a CASUAL survey that, with our curiosity and concern as researchers, we have conducted on a topic that has always fascinated us. A few years ago we saw the movie Kinsey and since then we have had the desire to one day conduct a massive and professional survey in our country, segmenting it by regions, unfortunately for now it is something distant because something like this is very expensive and in a society quite Influenced by conservative values, it's doubtful that someone would be interested in something like this. Please take it only as entertainment, and we'd love to know your opinions or experiences about it!
21 comentários - Bisexualidad en hombres y en mujeres (investigación casera)
Besos a tod@s.
yo por mi parte ,sea uno u otro sexo, lo que mas me gusta es disfrutar de la otra persona o personas que tengo enfrente indistintamente del rol que decida ocupar cada uno.
BESOS
¿No es muy elevado ese porcentaje de negación, cuando ya se sabe que en el ser humano existen aspectos de los dos sexos?
En mi opinión ese porcentaje está influenciado por el miedo/verguenza/cultura/educación/, etc.etc. a reconocer el hombre que puede tener fantasías bisexuales.
Igualmente es bueno hablar estos temas, aunque se tengan diferentes opiniones. Uno termina primero ampliando sus conocimientos y aprendiendo del resto de lectores.
Está muy desfigurada la noción del ser "hombre". Por ende el ser "macho" pasa a ser casi lo mismo. Los hombres que no aceptan ni reconocen la homosexualidad entre sus pares, no tienen problemas con el lesbianismo.
Cómo mujer he tenido que enfrentar mis propios tabúes y prejuicios. Y si bien no tengo experiencias gay, no me cierro a experimentarlas si un día se da la oportunidad. Porque después de todo, la búsqueda del placer es personal, y es algo muy subjetivo.
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Las minas lo tienen más claro, el varon es más histérico, porque se fija demasiado en qué diran, o tiene miedo que uno cuente....que se yo .Yo sigo siendo bien machito y me gustan mucho las minas.
Si se me llega a dar otra vez....y si.. le doy. jaja!! saludos.
Para que los encuestados sean más sinceros la encuesta tiene que ser anónima.
Por otra parte también influye la edad y el nivel educativo. Aquí mismo en poringa pueden encontrarse muchas fotos gays de cumbieros, que por otra parte se ve que también les gustan las mujeres.
yo fantase y he tenido relaciones con hombre, y con mujeres. me considero 100% BISEXUAL