What they think about sex... And it's not trueThere are myths among men that many women share. Do they have more “need” than us? Is it necessary to reach orgasm together? Is pornography a masculine terrain? All truths.
The men have more sexual needs than women
FALSE! This is a lie! What happens is that culturally, the man has always been allowed to have sex because a man who doesn't have sex is considered rare and if he has too much sex, he's a barbarous stud. But a woman who has too much sex is called many bad names.
Pornography is for men FALSE. In a survey, many people were asked what excited them the most. Men answered that it was pornographic films and women said they preferred to see naked bodies in romantic scenes. The researchers decided to test if this was true and analyzed their reactions. It turned out that those women also got excited by pornographic films, but while their bodies said yes, their minds said no. Physiologically, we women have the same needs as men, but the biggest complication is in our mind.
There must be simultaneous orgasm FALSE. It is erroneous to think that the couple has good sex when both reach orgasm at the same time. It's a myth. In a survey it was discovered that only 25% of women achieve orgasm through penetration: 75% need clitoral stimulation. A woman can be anorgasmic if she doesn't know she has a clitoris or if her partner doesn't stimulate it because he seeks his own pleasure. If we add the myth of simultaneous orgasm to this, the conflict is greater.The man knows everything that pleases the woman
FALSE. The man is not a seer and nor is he the stud who knows everything. Maybe he's not as experienced as he says he is, and even if he is, each woman is different from the others. And they need to know what one likes and what not. Just like they must express to their partner what they expect from her. They need to talk and communicate, understand each other in order to love each other.
3 comentários - Lo que ellos piensan del sexo
Y muchas verdades!
Coincido.
Gracias por compartir
El sexo y el amor pueden no ir de la mano, o puede que si, siempre dependerá del enfoque que le queramos dar, por ejemplo para mi, todo lo bueno de la relación lo volcamos en la intimidad, el sexo y el paso del tiempo son "medidas" de amor, y si se quiere prevalecer con el paso del tiempo, se necesitan dos personas, dispuestas, claro esta.
Con las relaciones ocasionales de una noche es distinto porque no hay compromiso, pero coger por coger es al pedo, al menos algo se tiene que sacar de esa mina que te volteaste en el boliche, de esa primera cita que termina de la mejor manera, algo se tiene que aprender, como si se tratara de un libro que terminaste de leer pero que no te ha gustado, no te podes quedar con que no te gusto, hay que pensar si, quizá, ese tipo de libro es mejor evitarlo de ahí en mas, como dicen, los libros no son cultura, y coger mucho no es coger bien ni mejorar como amante, al menos no necesariamente.
Hay que ser mas abiertos de mente, que incluso los que se dicen abiertos, en realidad se enfrascan en la postura de la libertad, les tiras un concepto que vaya en contra de la libertad eterna y ni se molestan en disfrazar el miedo que les da el solo pensar en eso, como dije en un relato mio, se puede recorrer un camino, y despues recorrer el otro.
Pero bue, basta de filosofadas, me aburro a mi mismo jajajaja
Saludos.
PD: ¿Y lo que ellas piensan del sexo? Las mujeres también tienen sus tonterías, seamos equitativos, porque también se cree que los hombres no tenemos cabeza, al menos arriba. Aunque no es que un sexo erre mas que el otro, simplemente, hay gente que erra.