El amor es cuestión de dos

No hay relationship that works if only one person puts in all the effort. Both of us must put in our part if we want to preserve and mature the love we have. It's something that requires work and dedication, always having to take care of it... but the effort is worth it, the love that endures over time is the most beautiful. A couple needs constant interest from both parties: what we don't take care of gets lost in our forgetfulness. A couple doesn't survive on its own or by the excessive effort of one party. A relationship is between two people who commit and fight shoulder to shoulder to be together. The pride, ego, fear, distrust, and many other negative emotions we manage make us create a vicious circle where no one wins but everyone loses: How many times have you pronounced a 'sorry' out of pride? How many times in a moment of quarrel have you preferred to act as if you hated that person? How many times thinking about the security of having them by your side, you forgot to give those details that captivated them so much? The love needs constant effort. Couples need continuous effort from our part to maintain them, we must be aware of what we give and at the same time of what we receive: *If instead of giving support and love we're giving a push, we can't expect to be given a path full of flowers. *If on the other hand, we are not receiving anything, what do we do committed to a relationship that only leaves us with disappointments? The couple is a matter of two. Although it may seem obvious, a couple is a matter of two. You can't do everything yourself and neither can you expect him to do it alone, because when that happens, the relationship turns into an endless torment where we go from exhaustion to exhaustion, from disappointment to disappointment, from mistake to mistake. We say that love is like... plants: you have to fertilize it for it to grow in a healthy way; but we never say who is responsible for fertilizing that love: are you? No. Are you your partner? No. You'll wonder why the previous negatives: when from our individuality, we take care of the love plant, it can grow with many leftovers: it only has our life vision, our side of the story, our thoughts, our feelings; the same happens if whoever took care of the love plant was only our partner... In love there is no I without us. The truth is that love doesn't know a I, it knows a us where we are able to reconcile instead of imposing our will, which doesn't mean losing our convictions, but managing them in such a way that we can walk alongside our loved one and share with him from what each one of us is. Always fertilize the love, but not alone, but in couple; in the continuous construction of a us that allows us to adorn a present with the most beautiful moments and dream about a future together, because love is a matter of two hearts that decide to be one