Clean teeth and fresh breath
Before anything, you must have your teeth absolutely clean and a fresh-breathing mouth. You should go to the dentist for a dental cleaning at least twice a year. And you should brush your teeth mornings and nights and after each meal if possible. It's better to drink plenty of pure water instead of soda (for better health and better teeth), coffee stains teeth and leaves bad breath. If you have a date with a woman and are going to eat together, after eating go to the bathroom and clean your teeth and make sure there's no food between them. The enzymes in the oral cavity can cause food to decompose and provoke bad breath. This is especially true for meat! Always keep some mint tablets handy for both of you. Mint tablets are better than gum because they dissolve, and gum might get in the way of your first kiss. Now that you have clean teeth and fresh breath, let's talk about techniques for kissing.
Keep your lips in shape!
Would you like to kiss someone with dry, chapped, and hard lips? Well, they don't either! That's why keep your lips in good condition. Always carry something for lip balm with you and preserve your soft and moisturized lips. Don't let the dry skin of your lips get worse!
First Technique for Kissing
Let's suppose this is the first time you're kissing her and if it isn't, assume it's the first kiss as I mentioned earlier and this will bring new emotions to your current relationship. Try and see! Start slow and don't rush things. When the moment is right, slowly try to kiss her and be very gentle, with just your lips slightly parted. Many women complain that men press their lips too tightly or open them too wide and want to suck in with their whole mouth. So you only need to have your lips lightly parted. Then gently press your lips against hers. When you put your lips on hers, they will adjust better if you put her lower or upper lip between yours. Kiss long and softly, if she responds, follow her rhythm and kiss her again. Savor the experience each time and vary the place where your lips start to touch hers, from the upper lip to the lower one or in the middle of both. As you continue, you can separate your lips more and smoothly start using only the tip of your tongue in the game. Now that if she has started putting her tongue in your mouth, that constitutes a strong sign for you to do the same, but go slowly and don't put it all the time, go slowly in a tempting way... Once you've reached this point of passionate French kisses, there is an infinite variety of variations and techniques you can use. I'll give you some more later.
Techniques with the tongue:
When passionately kissing with your tongues involved you can: 1. Move your tongue around hers and intertwine your tongues. 2. Play a game of tag: Touch her tongue, then quickly return your tongue to your mouth and see if she follows. 3. Suck her tongue or Suck her lower lip
But with caution!
4. Move your tongue over the tip of her tongue in the same way you would with her clitoris if you were giving her oral sex. This technique will give her the message that you're fabulous at oral sex! 5. Lick the inner edges of her lips with the tip of your tongue. This will help you do your job, create your own variations. Once you've kissed her passionately, you can head towards making love passionately. Let's take kisses to the preliminary play area and oral sex.
Basic Oral Pre-Liminary Games
Since you're already besetting her and she's responding so only tear off her pantyhose by force and penetrate her just between the thighs and move your tongue at supersonic speed! NO! THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT WOMEN COMPLAIN ABOUT! How many men are guilty of this? I mean, most men would like to go out with a girl and have her suddenly drop to her knees and start sucking my penis, the sooner the better. BUT THEY'RE NOT LIKE MEN! Women want to be seduced and provoked. Even men who care about women are guilty of this, FROM 0 TO HER VAGINA IN 5.2 SECONDS! Come on, this isn't a seduction race, it's moments we want to prolong as long as possible. What you'd like to do is warm her up and please her. Keep in mind warm her up every time you make love to a woman. When you warm her up, you increase her sexual desire and excitement. You'll want to drive her crazy with desire. You won't even want to touch her vagina until it's dripping hot. So warm her up first.
Entering the preliminary game step by step
Note: As you read this, imagine yourself doing it with your lover, real or imaginary, so that the techniques become part of you and flow effortlessly from your side when you're with a partner. If you have a partner already, imagine one and again to make all the techniques natural in you. 1. While kissing her on the mouth, you would also want to kiss her on other parts of her face. (See Illustration 1) Kiss her cheeks, chin, kiss or suck her lips as you go along (don't suck her face, only her lips, most women don't like being sucked on their faces) You'll notice I didn't mention the forehead because it's normally associated with non-sexual love and in that moment you wouldn't want to remind her of non-sexual feelings.
Illustration 1
2. Then caress the area where her jaw, neck, and ear meet. This is a very sensitive area. Gently kiss, lick, and suck it in this area, very tenderly and slowly. (If you say something with a very soft voice, since you're very close to her ear, anything you say normally would be very loud and could hurt her ear and possibly take away her excitement) 3. Now caress downwards along her neck, doing the same as in step 2. See illustration 2). Continue this if she responds. Remember that when making love to a woman, you can always ask 'Do you like it when I do this?' This way you'll know when you're wasting your time. But don't ask too frequently.
Illustration 2
4. At this height you should move along the line marked in Illustration 3 or a similar one. As you go along that line, kiss her, suck her and lick her. Moisten around the edge of her breast, first kissing it lightly, then licking it and finally sucking it smoothly (don't suck too hard that you give her a bruise) Cover the whole breast with kisses but don't touch her nipples yet. Moisturize in a circular motion moving closer each time.
Illustration 3
Just when you arrive at the edge of his nipple, use one of the techniques below (you can use them in the listed order below or in any order you choose but the 'Hot Breath' must be done first).
The Hot Breath:
Before touching her nipple, blow your hottest breath onto her nipple, but don't touch it really.
The Language like a whirlpool:
Move your tongue like a whirlpool around the areola of his nipple, circling it closer to the tip of the nipple each time. Start slowly and make it faster if you want. You can do this while she's enjoying it. But don't do it for so long that she gets bored with the sensation. Change techniques after a minute or two.
The Trembling Language:
Tickle the tip of your tongue back and forth over its erect nipple. Start slowly and continue faster if you want to. You can do this while she's enjoying it. But don't do it for so long that she gets bored with the sensation. Change and alternate techniques.
The Blowjob:
Slowly bring the nipple inside your mouth and suck it and rub it with your tongue, lips, and mouth. Press the nipple between your tongue and palate. Sucking and Swirling: Suck it as just explained, then when the nipple is in your mouth, swirl your tongue around its nipple like a whirlpool. Start slowly and continue faster if you want. You can do this while she's enjoying it. But don't do it for so long that she gets bored with the sensation. Change and alternate techniques.
The Bite:
Nibble very, very softly his nipple with your teeth. If you have any broken or jagged parts on your teeth, you should skip this technique. You'll only want to nibble his nipple very softly. This should be done for 30 seconds at most. (A good way to practice this is by putting an apple in your mouth and playing with it biting it with your teeth but without breaking the skin of the apple)
The Big Suck
This time when you suck the nipple, put as much of the surrounding area of the breast in your mouth as you can and suck and rub it gently with your tongue. Push the nipple and the breast against your palate with your tongue as mentioned earlier.
The Fresh Breath:
Now that his nipple is wet, if you blow with a cold breath from your mouth onto it, you'll provide him with a fresh sensation on his nipple, do this for 15 to 30 seconds. After doing so, continue immediately with 'The Suck and the Swirl', your warm mouth will feel very pleasant after the sensation of the cold breath.
5.
Use the techniques above first on one breast and then on the other, one at a time and then back again. You can even join their nipples and suck them at the same time (if their breasts are large enough) for at least 20 to 30 minutes! She'll love you for that. Most men only entertain themselves for a couple of minutes on women's breasts, as if they were just passing by or hurrying down or like they're rushing. But now you'll show her that you're a man who doesn't just appreciate her breasts but considers them a destination more than something you pass by when going to her vagina. You'll show her that you're a man who fully enjoys women and knows how to make love to a woman and satisfy her sexual desires.
6.
Now move slowly down towards her stomach, kissing, licking, and sucking it softly as you go down. Follow one of the paths marked in Illustration 4 or a similar one. Make circles around her navel. You can try gently with your tongue inside her navel, but very lightly and softly. Some women may like it and others may not. If she doesn't enjoy it, stop. And continue with the other areas. You can cover the entire area as marked in Illustration 4 and spend more time on her belly or stomach. You should do this for at least 5 to 10 minutes. Remember to warm her up.
Illustration 4
Note 1:
Don't tickle her. If she's very ticklish, it might be that you'll miss the area where she feels many tickles.
Note 2:
We're including many illustrations because we want to cover even the most basic techniques and ideas, in case you're a person without any sexual experience, no matter how you feel like an experienced lover and know exactly what to do.) 7. At this point, you can go down to her legs or turn her over and go to her back, which will be very pleasant because most men skip the back if they've started from the front. If you decide to go to her back, kiss her, lick her, and suck everything around her waist from the abdomen, while turning her over so she ends up face down. 8. When you get to her back, continue with a smooth movement following the pattern or path of Illustration 5. Remember to keep your passion and desire for her in mind and continue exciting her as you gently touch her lips, then with more pressure, then add your tongue, suck her, and nibble on her. You can also give her small bites that end with a kiss on her back. Spend at least 10 minutes on her back.
Illustration 5
9. After her back, you'd want to go down to her buttocks and follow the path marked in Illustration 6. First going down one side and coming back up, then going down and up the other side. At that moment, you can start pleasing her orally from behind or make her turn around. Assuming she has turned over, we'll see what you can do to her.
Illustration 6
10. After she has turned over, you should continue with her feet. Start again now. Kiss her, lick her, and use all the techniques you've learned so far. If you like to suck toes, this will be the time to do it. Suck each toe and rub it. (If her feet are not clean or have fungus in her toenails, open wounds, or blisters, I recommend skipping the oral play on her feet) Now start at the top of her foot and work your way up the inside of her legs, as this area is much more sensitive than the outside. 11. Climb up the inside of her legs as shown in Illustrations 7 and 8. Then get to the edge of her vagina licking it with long strokes. Then start at the top on the other leg and go down to her foot, using all the techniques you've learned so far. (This will drive her crazy, as she'll be excited and provoked since it's rare for a man to reach the vagina and then leave the area.) She'll be hot like crazy and you'll be showing who's in control of the situation Now go up the leg, all the way back to the edge of her vagina.
Illustration 7 and Illustration 8
12. Kiss, lick and suck the entire area around her vagina to the left and right using the techniques explained so far. Lick underneath her vagina in the perineum (the point between her vagina and anus). Do this for at least 5 to 10 minutes. 13. At this point you can also stimulate her anus with your mouth if you wish. Many women enjoy this type of buco-anal stimulation.
WARNING:
The stimulation of the anus with the mouth if not done with proper precautions can be associated with health risks since there are bacteria that live in the large intestine and colon that can cause serious infections in the gastrointestinal tract above (i.e., the mouth, stomach, thin intestine), or in your partner's vagina. If you want to practice oral stimulation of the anus, there are certain precautions you should follow.
A.
You should know your partner well and know that she has good health, and is free of Hepatitis or HIV.
B.
You should stimulate your partner's anus with your mouth only when she has just bathed and/or washed the area very well with water and soap. And there shouldn't have been any evacuation since she last did so. C. Nothing that has penetrated your partner's anus should come into contact with her mouth, your mouth, or her vagina. I don't recommend you penetrate her anus with your tongue. If you do penetrate it with your finger, make sure not to orally stimulate her anus afterwards because when you withdraw the finger, you can drag bacteria and/or feces from inside the rectum towards the outside of the anus. Also remember always which finger you penetrated her anus with so that you avoid introducing it into your mouth, or hers, or her vagina later on. If you follow these precautions, you'll be safe. But remember that if you practice oral stimulation of the anus, you're doing it under your own responsibility. 14. Now we will continue with what you've been waiting for and she now will be wanting and needing, with such desire that she will be like a wild animal. At these moments her vagina should be dripping wet! So start pleasing her with the techniques we describe below.
Techniques of Vaginal and Clitoral Stimulation:
In the majority of these techniques your mouth will be just on her vulva, almost never extending your tongue as seen in pornographic videos. The Porno Tongue, as some call it, is not a good sexual technique. It's used for the camera and the video porno spectator, not to benefit the actress. A tongue in a moist and warm mouth feels much better than an extended one everywhere. Plus, when your tongue is inside your mouth you have much better control, skill, and speed when needed. The only exception is when they use some long passes at the beginning, but then you'll continue with full-mouth techniques. You'll use many of the same techniques we've explained earlier, but some vary slightly so study them carefully along with the new ones. Start with warming-up passes, first, and then proceed with indirect clitoral stimulation, finally following up with direct clitoris stimulation (unless your partner is very sensitive to direct clitoral stimulation) The Hot Breath: Before you actually touch her vulva (outer area of the vagina), use your hottest breath all over the area. But in fact, don't touch her vagina, use your softest and warmest breath on the outer area only.
WARNING: NEVER INSERT FINGERS INTO YOUR FRIEND'S VAGINA! YOU CAN CAUSE A BUBBLE OF AIR (AIR EMBOLISM) TO ENTER HER BLOODSTREAM, WHICH CAN LEAD TO SEVERE DAMAGE AND EVEN DEATH!!!!
General Suggestions for Pleasing Women Orally:
• Continue stimulating your partner using the techniques you just learned. You can bring your partner to orgasm multiple times if you desire. Most women need a brief break between each orgasm. So, after giving her an orgasm, wait 30 to 90 seconds before starting new stimulation. During this period, you can take a breath and kiss her lips or stay between her legs and kiss the inner part of her thighs. • In surveys made to women, most affirm that they like their partners stimulating them as much with their mouth as with their fingers. Therefore, I recommend reading the article about clitoral stimulation and female ejaculation, where you can find techniques to combine with those you learned here. • If she starts pushing her vagina against your mouth more forcefully, it means she wants more and is enjoying it. If she moves back, it may be that she's very sensitive or you're providing too direct stimulation too soon. You can continue using other techniques or stick with the same one. When you find a technique that really gets her going, stick to it! You should learn to read her movements, breathing, and sounds. • You can stimulate her more directly with any of the described techniques, pulling on the hood of her clitoris and stimulating the exposed clitoris. Do this by gently pulling on the skin covering her clitoris with your thumb or another finger. • Ask your partner what she likes most and how you can provide her with the greatest pleasure.
Positions to please your lover orally:
Until now we have assumed that your partner is lying on her back with her legs slightly apart and that you are facing downwards between her legs. Now we want to show you some other convenient positions for oral sex.
Sitting on your face - facing you
This position allows for easy access to her clitoris. You can change reaching to massage her gills and add vaginal stimulation or the G-spot from behind with your fingers.
Sitting on your face - turning back towards
This position allows for easy access to her clitoris and anus for oral stimulation of the anus. You can also reach to massage her buttocks and add digital anal stimulation with your fingers.
Between Your Legs – On Your Shoulders
There are many variations of this basic position, but all have in common the position of being between their legs. And as with all positions where you're in the middle of their legs, you can provide great stimulation to the clitoris and add vaginal or G-spot stimulation with your fingers.
Hers legs bent upwards - your chest against the bed
This is a great position to do the 'Snow Cone' technique. Since you have very easy access to your perineum and anus if you so desire. Also, it's a good position for the 'Tongue Thrust' technique.
Rear Woman - You from behind (The delight of the anus lover!)
This position and variation where the woman is standing and bent forward with her favorite men who love butts. You have a complete view of her beautiful butt and vagina and can provide oral stimulation of all kinds on her clitoris and/or anus, as well as add manual stimulation with your hand. A great technique is to stimulate her clitoris with your thumb while stimulating her G-spot with your fingers and her anus with your tongue.
The 69 - Mutual Oral Stimulation
This is the favorite position of many people, in this position you can practice all the same techniques as in the position where she sits on your face, and at the same time you'll receive a great pleasure provided by her. Many couples use this position as a substitute for intercourse for one reason or another.
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