Managing a relationship where one of the two's work is different always complicates things, however there are job categories that usually make it much harder to manage a relationship just because of being different.
The thing is you're dating a girl who never told you her job was being a prostitute, and one day due to those weird life things you find out about her work through third parties, what should your attitude be?
■TómScrew with calmnessThe first thing you should do before anything is to take things as calmly as possible, even though it's true that you're finding out something very serious, remember that losing your calm will only make things worse.Face the problemWhen you talk to your girlfriend, tell her what you know, it's not necessary to ask for explanations at first, the first step is to confirm from her lips if it's true or not, then the explanations will come.New possibilitiesIf it's a relationship where you can consider there's love, you should talk to her and tell her that it's necessary to reevaluate your life and perspectives together, so she must analyze the possibility of a more common job. And less different.Decide what you're going to doIf there's no possibility of changing jobs, it's you who has the final say, beyond their profession, it's the matter of not having known before what they dedicated themselves to, which gives you the opportunity to decide today whether to end or not the relationship, and make her know that.Leave the past behindIf instead she has taken the option to change jobs and with it her life, you should do the same on your part, first giving her the necessary support so that she feels backed up in her decision, and secondly and much more difficult NEVER mention the topic in the future, even when things get complicated, remember that she took a step aside because she loves you, you should close that door too and not bring it up again. This is already a final comment. It's necessary to recapitulate about the theme that prostitution is still a quite difficult job, in fact many labor researchers classify prostitution as a denigrating job where people are commercialized with a very high social cost and where its actors usually have serious problems of low self-esteem after some time, not counting things like drug and alcohol problems also.
The thing is you're dating a girl who never told you her job was being a prostitute, and one day due to those weird life things you find out about her work through third parties, what should your attitude be?
■TómScrew with calmnessThe first thing you should do before anything is to take things as calmly as possible, even though it's true that you're finding out something very serious, remember that losing your calm will only make things worse.Face the problemWhen you talk to your girlfriend, tell her what you know, it's not necessary to ask for explanations at first, the first step is to confirm from her lips if it's true or not, then the explanations will come.New possibilitiesIf it's a relationship where you can consider there's love, you should talk to her and tell her that it's necessary to reevaluate your life and perspectives together, so she must analyze the possibility of a more common job. And less different.Decide what you're going to doIf there's no possibility of changing jobs, it's you who has the final say, beyond their profession, it's the matter of not having known before what they dedicated themselves to, which gives you the opportunity to decide today whether to end or not the relationship, and make her know that.Leave the past behindIf instead she has taken the option to change jobs and with it her life, you should do the same on your part, first giving her the necessary support so that she feels backed up in her decision, and secondly and much more difficult NEVER mention the topic in the future, even when things get complicated, remember that she took a step aside because she loves you, you should close that door too and not bring it up again. This is already a final comment. It's necessary to recapitulate about the theme that prostitution is still a quite difficult job, in fact many labor researchers classify prostitution as a denigrating job where people are commercialized with a very high social cost and where its actors usually have serious problems of low self-esteem after some time, not counting things like drug and alcohol problems also.
2 comentários - Mi novia es una Prostituta ¿que hago?
Yo e algún momento tenía una "relación" con una nena que trabajaba como prostituta y la pasamos muy bien el tiempo que duró la vaina... y hasta me presto plata alguna vez... JAJAJAJAaaa